33 F4M trying to hit the Reddit jackpot
I have been down this road more than I would like to admit but it’s also made me realize what I want and don’t want out of this. Something new, something exciting, something that is going to make me smile when I look at my phone. I want to really get to know each other. I’m looking for attention and affection, and I’m looking to give it back to someone
ATTRACTION is very important to me and has probably been one of the biggest road blocks with this. I’m on here because I want more, not because I want to settle for something less. I am going to expect you to send a picture early on. If this is a problem do not bother reaching out
Patterns that I have seen in my experiences on here that I am trying to avoid:
-Building a connection/relationship with you just for you to ghost/decide it’s not what you want in a week
-If you’re just looking for a hookup/sexting relationship. Not what I’m looking for.
-A couple messages every couple hours a day unfortunately doesn’t work for me. I find it very hard to keep the conversation flowing and to get to know someone that way
Now please read those over again. Did I mention the attraction part??
If I sound frustrated it’s because I am. Me? A great personality, attractive even by real life standards, and I have a lot to offer to make someone feel wanted and special. Why am I here? Because like most people here, I feel unfulfilled in my situation and am hoping to find more. Married, no kids, EST. I would prefer you are EST as well and under 40.