u/0xygen7

I'm looking for a serious and intense long term dynamic. A dynamic that is not just about kink but something where we can build a deep connection. Something where we can trust each other and talk about literally everything. But something where the kinky part is equally important. I'm looking for someone who can take over my submissive side and turn me into theirs. Someone who figures out my buttons and uses them relentlessly to get into my head.

But a good dynamic is not a one-way street. We are both adults and you have your needs and wants as well. So its a priority that the kink part is about both of us and your needs get fulfilled and its not just a "dominate me now" thing.

Of course we should be sexually compatible! So before you make any decision to answer my post you should have a general idea what I like and dislike.

Denial and orgasm control is definitely a favourite of mine! Without someone who keeps me accountable I don't have the willpower to stay denied so I would absolutely love it when denial is part of our dynamic. I'm not really a fan of chastity though because it doesn't fit into my day to day life. I also really love bondage! But I just like being not in control and a little (or more then a little) helpless. Through that I also discovered erotic hypnosis which is a niche kink but one I started to explore more in the last year and come to enjoy.

I also won't say no to some pain and some humiliation or degradation when it fits the vibe. But thats not something I need every day.

I also really enjoy the psychological side of a power dynamic even when it is not directly sexy. Like I tell you I will be in bed at 10pm and you ask me to see my screen time the next morning to verify that, count me in!

Of course there are many more things that I enjoy but that should give a very good general idea if we are compatible.

But this is not only about sex. To build a deep connection we should also vibe as people. So you also should know a little about me. I'm 29 years old and live in Europe. You don't have to be in the same time zone as me and I'm always willing to make an effort even when we are apart by hours. I'm 193cm / 6'3 with black hair and green eyes. I do have a lot of hobbies and love cycling and spending time outside in general. But I also squeeze in some strength training and yoga to keep me balanced. When I'm outside I typically take a camera with me which has become my new favourite hobby. After a long day you can also find me reading a book, watching a movie or spending some time gaming.

If you are interested after reading all of that message me! I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

I've been interested in hypnosis and especially erotic hypnosis for a long time now. Up to now I played around with a lot of audio files and some text inductions and I think I can by now trance quite well. But I always had this itch that I wanted a bit more. That I want to experience something deeper.

So I'm going to try my luck here! I'm not looking for some quick "trance me and do everything you want". I'm looking for someone who takes their time and conditions me over weeks to reach a whole different level of intensity. I want to drop deeply at your command, obey triggers I don't remember you giving me and discover that you gave me post hypnotic suggestions that I would have never thought would work on me.

One of my main kinks that I want to explore is amnesia and memory play with post hypnotic suggestions. With audio files I was never really able to forget but I would love to reach that level. I'm aware that hypnosis is not magic and that this will probably take a while.

Otherwise I have a few more classical kinks we can talk about in private. I'm open to text, voice and video session and listening to audios you choose or record. Of course it needs a bit of trust to work up to voice and video calls and I would love to get to know you a little before any hypnosis happens. After that I'm also very curious to experience covert inductions.

If you are interested write me a message!

If you look at me from the outside you wouldn't expect to find me here. My outside self is confident, successful at work and disciplined in reaching my personal goals. But I also have another side. A side thats hidden to nearly all people I know. That side of me is submissive and wants to be broken down to follow and please.

I'm looking for something that goes beyond just kink. I want to build a deep connection with you and talk about what drives us as people and not just about sex. We should feel deeply comfortable with each other and trust each other. But of course the kinky part should not be neglected either. I love it when someone gets into my head and breaks my control, denies me and shows me how submissive I really am. Of course its not all about me and your pleasure should always be a priority!

But the deep connection I'm looking for requires trust and we should match each others vibe. So you should know something about me before you make a decision to reach out. I'm 29 years old and live in Europe. You don't have to be in the same time zone as me and I'm always willing to make an effort even when we are apart by hours. I'm 193cm / 6'3 with black hair and green eyes. I do have a lot of hobbies and love cycling and spending time outside in general. But I also squeeze in some strength training and yoga to keep me balanced. When I'm outside I typically also take a camera with me which is my new favourite hobby. After a long day you can also find me reading a book, watching a movie or spending some time gaming.

On a more kinky side I'm into orgasm control and denial, bondage, a bit of humiliation, rules with rewards and punishments, anything that makes me lose control, and much more we can talk about in private!

If you think you are the person who can claim my submissive side message me and let's find out!

I've been interested in hypnosis and especially erotic hypnosis for a long time now. Up to now I played around with a lot of audio files and some text inductions and I think I can by now trance quite well. But I always had this itch that I wanted a bit more. That I want to experience something deeper.

So I'm going to try my luck here! I'm not looking for some quick "trance me and do everything you want". I'm looking for someone who takes their time and conditions me over weeks to reach a whole different level of intensity. I want to drop deeply at your command, obey triggers I don't remember you giving me and discover that you gave me post hypnotic suggestions that I would have never thought would work on me.

One of my main kinks that I want to explore is amnesia and memory play with post hypnotic suggestions. With audio files I was never really able to forget but I would love to reach that level. I'm aware that hypnosis is not magic and that this will probably take a while.

Otherwise I have a few more classical kinks we can talk about in private. I'm open to text, voice and video session and listening to audios you choose or record. Of course it needs a bit of trust to work up to voice and video calls and I would love to get to know you a little before any hypnosis happens. After that I'm also very curious to experience covert inductions.

If you are interested write me a message!

I don't think that I have to tell you how wonderful that moment right before an orgasm feels like. That moment of pure bliss and pleasure when all the outside noise is drowned out and there is just pure happiness. But you probably also know how empty you feel after an orgasm. Maybe you wonder if an orgasm is even worth it?

What if I told you there is a way to extend that wonderful feeling you otherwise only have for a moment before you cum? You just have to give up the orgasm part.

If you are already familiar with denial you are well aware what I'm talking about. Then you also know how hard it is to stay denied when you don't have someone watching you and keeping you accountable.

I'm looking for someone who wants to explore the fun of orgasm control and denial. It doesn't matter if you are already experienced and you need the strict accountability to regularly edge and stay denied or if this is all new to you and it will be the first time you feel that blissful desperation. Of course denial by itself is not really effective to keep you on the edge. I want to use your desperation to make you just a little more obedient day by day. And while you find yourself turning into an denied obedient girl you will notice that I will use anything I can find against you to make you more horny, more desperate and keep you on the edge constantly. If its your first time on denial I will be gentle of course!

Any BDSM dynamic works better and is more intense if we can also connect as people and not just with sex. And especially if you give up something as big as your orgasms trust is nonnegotiable. So before you decide if you want me to lead you down the wonderful path of denial you should have a general idea of who I am!

I'm 29 years old and from Europe. Outside of kink I'm a very goal driven person with a wide range of interests.

You can find me outside cycling and exploring new routes but I also like to unwind with video games or a good movie after a long day of work. Currently I'm getting a bit more into photography as a hobby and every two weeks I'm playing D&D. Of course there is much more to me and probably to you too. But we can get into that in private.

By the way I don't mind in which time zone you are I'm very good at working around limitations and already have experience with that.

Now if you want to know how good denial can feel message me, introduce yourself and tell me when your last orgasm was!

I've been interested in hypnosis and especially erotic hypnosis for a long time now. Up to now I played around with a lot of audio files and some text inductions and I think I can by now trance quite well. But I always had this itch that I wanted a bit more. That I want to experience something deeper.

So I'm going to try my luck here! I'm not looking for some quick "trance me and do everything you want". I'm looking for someone who takes their time and conditions me over weeks to reach a whole different level of intensity. I want to drop deeply at your command, obey triggers I don't remember you giving me and discover that you gave me post hypnotic suggestions that I would have never thought would work on me.

One of my main kinks that I want to explore is amnesia and memory play with post hypnotic suggestions. With audio files I was never really able to forget but I would love to reach that level. I'm aware that hypnosis is not magic and that this will probably take a while.

Otherwise I have a few more classical kinks we can talk about in private. I'm open to text, voice and video session and listening to audios you choose or record. Of course it needs a bit of trust to work up to voice and video calls and I would love to get to know you a little before any hypnosis happens. After that I'm also very curious to experience covert inductions.

If you are interested write me a message!

If you look at me from the outside you wouldn't expect to find me here. My outside self is confident, successful at work and disciplined in reaching my personal goals. But I have another side. It's hidden to nearly all people I know. That side of me is submissive and wants to be broken down to follow and to please.

I'm looking for someone who can get into my head and break and control me on a psychological and physical level (potential long term). You should be a presence that always lingers behind me. Sometimes caring and sweet, sometimes strict and mean. But I don't want to make it only about me. Your needs and your pleasure is a priority to me!

But this is not just about kink. I want to build a deep connection with you and talk about what drives us as people and not just about sex. We should feel deeply comfortable with each other and trust each other. At the same time we should be able to talk about our daily lives and the small things that bring joy too. Or just simply vent and yap.

I'm 29 years old and live in Europe. You don't have to be in the same time zone as me and I'm always willing to make an effort even when we are apart by hours. I'm 193cm / 6'3 with black hair and green eyes. I do have a lot of hobbies and love cycling and spending time outside in general. But I also squeeze in some strength training and yoga to keep me balanced. When I'm outside I typically also take a camera with me which is my new favourite hobby. After a long day you can also find me reading a book, watching a movie or spending some time gaming.

To be more specific about my kinks I'm into orgasm control and denial, bondage, a bit of humiliation and degradation, rules with rewards and punishments, anything that makes me lose control, and much more we can talk about in private.

If you think you are the person who can claim my submissive side as theirs message me and let's talk!

Have you ever experienced the sweet feeling when you can just let go and don't have to worry about anything?

When you can just turn off your brain and have someone guide you because they know what is good for you?

I'm looking for someone who is seeking exactly that. I want to be the gentle hand that is guiding you in your life and the strict hand that is punishing you if you wander off the right path.

I'm looking for a long term kinky dynamic (that could turn into a relationship) where I take care off you and I get to know everything about you.

I'm not looking for something shallow or just some short sessions. I want to get in your head, peel back your layers, and learn about your deepest desires, wishes and fears. We should develop a deep connection so we can trust each other blindly.

Such a deep connection will then further amplify our kinky experience. Because the kinky part shouldn't stay in the bedroom. It should bleed over to our day-to-day life with rules and tasks. I want to keep you on the edge and make you squirm while you become my perfect toy. I want to train you and you wont recognise how obedient you become until it is too late and you don't want to do anything else then follow.

Main main kinks are bondage, orgasm control, edging, denial, rules with rewards and punishments, tasks, anything that creates power dynamics, psychological bdsm and a bit of pain. There is more that I enjoy that we can talk about in private and I'm always open to try out new things that you like and I did't played with so far.

The deep connection I'm looking for requires us to be compatible. We don't have to like the same things (in fact I like to hear about things that I don't know anything about) but the vibe should be there. I'm 29 years old, 193cm tall, green eyes and black hair. I love cycling and spending time outdoors. Recently I also picked up strength training again. Two years ago I got into photography which is starting to become one of my favourite hobbies because it allows me to be creative after my very logic based job. Currently I'm digger deeper into colour to learn more about the art itself. But I also like to unwind playing video games, watching movies and reading. I value my mental health and meditate and journal regularly.

I'm based in Europe but I did work around time differences in the past so you can be everywhere in the world.

If you are interested and want my gentle hand guiding you in your life write me a message and introduce yourself!

f you look at me from the outside you wouldn't expect to find me here. My outside self is confident, successful at work and disciplined in reaching my personal goals. But I have another side. It's hidden to nearly all people I know. That side of me is submissive and wants to be broken down to follow and to please.

But this is not just about kink. I want to build a deep connection with you and talk about what drives us as people and not just about sex. We should feel deeply comfortable with each other and trust each other.

I'm 29 years old and live in Europe. You don't have to be in the same time zone as me and I'm always willing to make an effort even when we are apart by hours. I'm 193cm / 6'3 with black hair and green eyes. I do have a lot of hobbies and love cycling and spending time outside in general. But I also squeeze in some strength training and yoga to keep me balanced. When I'm outside I typically also take a camera with me which is my new favourite hobby. After a long day you can also find me reading a book, watching a movie or spending some time gaming.

On a more kinky side I'm into orgasm control and denial, bondage, a bit of humiliation, rules with rewards and punishments, anything that makes me lose control like hypnosis, and much more we can talk about in private.

If you think you are the person who can claim my submissive side as theirs message me and let's find out!