i think it’s pretty common for guys to find flexibility hot in women; yogis, gymnasts, dancers, etc. being able to do the splits or get folded into a pretzel with legs behind the head is generally seen as very sexy.
but what about the reverse? do women ever find it attractive when a man is really flexible and can do the same things? is male flexibility something you notice or find appealing?
Been working on anal training with my girlfriend for a while because she really enjoys anal toys and gradually getting stretched. She loves the feeling and gets really into it, so we’ve built up a reliable prep routine to keep things clean and comfortable during our sessions.
Here’s what we do:
•Day before: She eats lots of veggies, whole grains, and high-fiber foods.
•Day of: She sticks to liquids only (no solid food). In the morning I mix a dose of Restoralax into her coffee to help fully empty her bowels.
•Right before play: We use the shower enema attachment with lukewarm water and rinse until she runs clear.
This combo helps reduce mess so we can focus on the fun part.
On the toy side, don’t be cheap with them. It’s worth investing in good quality. We use only metal and glass toys because you can feel the nice weight and smooth finish, and she says they feel much better. We pair them with plenty of silicone lube (which works great with glass and metal and doesn’t break down the toys over time).
No matter how big or textured the toys get, always go with flared bases for safety.
If you’re prepping for anal play or training, this has been solid for us. Use lots of lube, go slow, keep communicating, and have fun with it.