u/15blinks

Seattle has an amazing rope scene. There are so many interesting classes this spring, not to mention parties at subspace, Gallery Erato, and even out in Bremerton Aces.

Since I moved home to the PNW a little over a year ago, I've been been working on building community here. I've met some great people, but I'm still hoping to find chemistry with a partner.

About me:

Almost 20 years of experience in kink, much of that with rope, specifically. I enjoy fast, fun, improvisation in ties and I'm always looking to improve. Suspension is especially interesting. Other kinds of play are fun, too: impact, needles, power exchange. It all depends on the energy and interests of my partner. I teach an occasional class locally, and I've helped organize hotel takeover events in the past. I love public dungeon play.

On the personal side, I'm wildly over educated (PhD in science, self taught in software), emotionally aware (woo hoo therapy for self awareness!), and politically very far left. I'm poly with a nesting partner of 10 years. We play and date separately. I tend to prefer fewer, stronger connections that build over time. Physically, I'm 6'4", and in sufficiently good shape for 10 mile hikes, and some vigorous dungeon activities. I can, and have, lifted a partner with one arm while fixing ropes with the other.

About you:

Curious, brave, adventurous. You could be very experienced with rope, or just starting out. I'm happy to meet you where you are because we start to explore.

On the personal side, please be your own best advocate. Negotiation only works when everyone can articulate their needs. It's ok to still be exploring (I am too!) but being able to talk about stuff is essential. Please be poly/enm or open to exploring, too. Rope without connection is tedious, and connection can go pretty deep sometimes.

I know that all sounds like a lot so let's start slow. Tell me something you love about Seattle, a great kink experience you had, or the best thing you've read this year.