36 [M4F] #LaMirada – Gentle, active guy looking for connection + maybe kink (if we click)
Hey there — I’m a 36-year-old Mexican-American guy in La Mirada who believes the best connections start with good conversation and mutual respect.
A bit about me:
· 5’8”, 190lbs – I work out regularly (current goal: improve my cardio, not my ego).
· I love jazz and house music – improvisation and rhythm, both on and off the dance floor.
· Personality-wise: easy-going, perceptive, and emotionally present. I’m uncut and un-rushed – I genuinely prefer getting to know someone before anything physical.
What I’m looking for:
A feminine, confident woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say it. I tend to connect best with women who are submissive-leaning in dynamic but strong and clear outside of it.
If we click, I’m open to exploring kink together — things like praise, light impact, and … (he he). But I’m equally happy to just enjoy deep conversation, good coffee, or a long drive with good music.
Important to me:
· Mutual attraction and STI-free status (happy to share recent test results).
· A teasing build-up — no rush, no pressure.
· Honest communication about boundaries and desires.
You might be my person if you:
· Appreciate a man who listens as much as he leads.
· Like the idea of being adored and respected.
· Are slim, athletic, or somewhere in between — though chemistry matters more than any box.
If any of this resonates, send me a message. Tell me something you’ve been enjoying lately — a song, a meal, a quiet moment. Let’s start there.