Hello everyone,
this is my first post on this subreddit, so I’m a bit nervous but also really excited to finally write it.
As the title already says, I’m searching for a caring mommy who can also be dominant when needed. I’m looking for someone who enjoys taking the lead gently but firmly, someone who can give me that warm, nurturing feeling while also setting clear rules and boundaries when the situation calls for it. I’m also very much into chastity cages. I already own one and sometimes wear it during the day. My longest time locked so far has been around three hours. It’s not that long yet because I’m still getting used to the feeling and the constant reminder it gives me. I’d love to explore longer periods together with the right person who can guide and encourage me.
But please know that I don’t want our connection to be only about sexual things or kink. That’s important to me, but it’s not everything. I also really want to talk about our daily lives, share experiences, laugh about funny moments, and just get to know each other as people. If you’re comfortable, we can talk about your day, your hobbies, your thoughts, or whatever is on your mind. I believe a good dynamic grows much stronger when there’s real connection. %
While we’re chatting and possibly building something together, I’d also like to have a safeword in place from the beginning. Safety is really important to both of us, and I want us to feel comfortable saying “red” or any other agreed word if something ever feels too much, too fast, or just not right. Clear communication and mutual respect are the foundation for me.
One important thing I want to mention upfront: I was blackmailed once in the past with intimate pictures, and that experience left me quite cautious. Because of that, I only feel comfortable sending any pictures (especially face or more revealing ones) after I have built 120% trust with someone. I hope you can understand and respect that boundary. I’m happy to chat, get to know each other deeply, and take things slowly until that trust is really there.
So, who am I? In about three weeks I’ll have my birthday and turn 19. I’m a pretty active guy: I play football (soccer) in a club and have been going to the gym regularly for almost two years now. I really enjoy sports and staying fit. In my free time I love playing video games, whether it’s something competitive or just relaxing with a good story. I also like going out with my friends, grabbing something to eat or just hanging around.
Physically, I’m about 176 cm tall, have dark blonde hair and blue eyes. I’m interested in a lot of different things. I love cars and can talk for hours about engines and cool models. Comics are another big passion of mine; I still collect some and enjoy both superhero stuff and more independent titles.
I’m generally a positive and open-minded person who values honesty and kindness. I can be a bit shy at first, especially in new situations like this, but once I feel comfortable I open up pretty quickly. I’m looking for a real connection where I can be myself, where I can surrender control in a safe and caring way, but also share normal everyday moments.
If you think we could match and you’re willing to take the time to build real trust first, feel free to send me a message. I’d love to hear about you, what you’re looking for and what your interests are.
Also include the secret sign (you can also write it down) i placed, in the text, in your first message to confirm you read everything.
Thank you for reading my post.