u/50s_FunCpl

First post and figuring out reddit. Sorry if this is the wrong place.

Both 54 yo and together for 34 yrs. We can finally put a name to our kinks. It has taken a long time to be honest and open and this is re-igniting something that felt empty for some time.

I find it intoxicating thinking of my wife exposed and pleasured by others. I found it cute for many years when she would flirt with other men. I always enjoy her happiness getting attention. It has escalated as we have opened up to each other.

My wife is now discovering that she is a closeted exhibitionist. She fantasizes about people seeing and using her.

Last night was a catalyst after she let it slip about a younger man walking by. I was not upset, I encouraged her to share her thoughts. Her confession started a ton of reading and of course a great night in the bedroom. I am hoping this is the opening for a lot more fun.

I am not a sub. I am not into being humiliated so a cuck was an uncomfortable label so finding this kink explained has been an eye opener. I want to be an active participant in her pleasure.

What are things other couples have done to try this out? Are there specific chat rooms/boards to look at for more exploration? Is this sub the right place? Do tributes work for this? That seems exciting. We like the ideas of others, but neither of us wants another physical person in the bedroom. But we certainly do love talking about it.