34 [M4F] #Seattle, WA - Searching for my sweet and kinky partner
Hello, thanks for stopping to read my post. I am looking for someone that I can build a long term relationship with, but I am also open to a consistent fwb. I want someone who is sweet, possibly into nerdy stuff (like gaming/collectible/anime/comics/pop-culture), and kinky.
Ideally I hope to find a person who considers themselves a sub. I have been wanting to find someone that is into, or curious about the following kinks. Breast/nipple play, petplay, teasing/edging, degradation/humiliation, cum play, bondage, anal, toys. I also want someone who would into me picking out cute and kinky outfits for them to wear in private. I hope you are into collars, skimpy clothing, high heels, etc because I'll want to get you some outfits :) There is more I am interested in, but we can discuss it privately. I am pretty open so please tell me about any other kinks you are into. I would love to know about what kinks you are into or want to explore as well.
> About me:
34yo, tall (6’1”), ~170lbs (slim/avrage shape), black male, black afro, and black beard. I am college educated and I work as a software engineer. I live on my own in Capitol Hill, so I am able to host. I consider myself a kind, easy going, and open minded person. I am a pretty go with the flow type of person.
My non-kinky interest are mostly video games and computer stuff (building/fixing/programing). Some of my favorite games are Zelda games, Transistor, and Fallout 3/NV. Most recently I have been playing Pokopia and a few indie games. When I’m not up to playing games/working on computers, I am usually streaming something to watch, or learning some new programming skill. My favorite TV Shows Community and PnR, but I tend to watch a lot of stuff. I am mostly an indoors person, but I am often outside with friends getting food/drinks or going to events/concerts. I also love to travel when I can. My favorite travel destination I have been to is Japan and I miss it there so much.* Kink wise I would say I tend to fall into the soft dom/caregiver role. I love taking care of my partner, being intimate, and close with my partner. In general I love providing aftercare, kissing, cuddling for hours, and giving praise. That being said I also enjoy rougher play as well. I would like to think I am pretty open minded. I am always open to at least chat about exploring kinks. Please don’t be shy about telling me about your kinks and fantasies.
Mutual attraction is important to me, so I would like to exchange photos SFW earlier in our chat to establish that. I don't want to waste your time or mine. I just ask that you are honest if you don’t turn out to be attracted to me and I will give you the same respect.
> Who I am looking for:
Cis-female, around my age but younger than myself is preferred, local to the greater Seattle area, open a relationship if we click or being consistent fwb.
Single. I am not looking for anyone who is currently in a relationship or married.
Child free. I personally don’t want kids and I don’t intend to change my mind about that.
Submissive. I am not looking for a dom, domme or switch.
Willing to exchange SFW pictures or video chat before meeting irl.
I have a preference for Asian and White women, but it's not a deal-breaker.
I would be absolutely thrilled if we have some common interest. If you are into video games, anime, or other pop culture stuff we will get along great. Being able to connect beyond just kinky stuff would be really nice.
Please be DDF. I am and I expect my partner to be as well. If you socially drink or smoke weed that is fine. If you smoke cigarettes that is deal breaker for me for health reasons.
NO Trump supporter. We will not get along if you support the current administration.
If you are interested and live in the greater Seattle message please send me a message. I am NOT looking for anything online only. I don't want a pen pal. Please don't message me for online play. If you are not open to getting coffee or something as vibe check after exchanging pictures and talking and for a bit then we aren't going to work out. If this is still up I’m probably still looking. I can't wait to hear from you.