u/8989tenn

Southern California Connection group [telegram, ]

🤝 Welcome to the Cali Lovers Club 🤝

Cali Lovers Club is an intentional, welcoming community built for open-minded adults who are looking for real connections, great conversations, and a supportive network. We specialize in hosting monthly munches—casual, low-pressure social gatherings held in public spaces—where you can step away from the noise of the internet and meet like-minded people in the real world.

Whether you are completely new to the community, exploring your boundaries, or a seasoned veteran, our mission is simple: to provide a relaxed, judgment-free space where you can show up as your 100% authentic self.

🛡️ Our Core Philosophy & Community Pillar

We believe that a great community doesn't just happen by accident; it requires intention. We are fiercely committed to creating safe, inclusive, and well-moderated environments. To maintain the high quality and integrity of our group, every member is expected to uphold our core values, both online in our chats and offline at our events.

  1. Consent is Absolute

Consent is the foundation of everything we do. It must be freely given, informed, and enthusiastic—in every interaction, conversation, and physical space. "No" always means no, and a lack of a clear "Yes" also means no. We strictly respect personal boundaries, online and off.

  1. Respect & Radical Inclusivity

We have zero tolerance for judgment, shaming, harassment, or discrimination of any kind. This is a space where people from all walks of life should feel safe expressing who they are. We treat one another with kindness, empathy, and mutual respect.

  1. Open & Transparent Communication

We encourage honest, mature communication. If a boundary is crossed, or if you ever feel uncomfortable, we advocate for speaking up or bringing it directly to our leadership team.

  1. Active & Proactive Moderation

Our administration team works tirelessly behind the scenes to keep this space safe, authentic, and free from bots, predators, and disruptive behavior. We take member comfort and safety seriously, and we enforce our guidelines strictly but fairly.

🚀 How to Get Started with Us:

Step 1: Say Hello! Drop a brief introduction in the main chat. Share your preferred name/alias, a little bit about yourself, or what brought you to the club.

Step 2: Check the Pinned Messages. You’ll find our full code of conduct, FAQ, and dates for our upcoming monthly munches pinned to the top of the channel.

Step 3: RSVP to a Munch. The best way to experience Cali Lovers Club is in person. Keep an eye out for our next event announcement and come hang out!

If you are looking for genuine human connection, safe exploration, and a respectful tribe of open-minded individuals, you’re in the right place. Welcome to the club.

🌴 Join the Official Conversation: DM me for link

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u/8989tenn — 5 days ago

Looking for a couple to join us tonight we can host

We are drama free

Clean and drug free

420 okay

u/8989tenn — 26 days ago