Advice for long strokes?
Hi :)
I (M) never thought I’d be posting here. Anal has been a kink of mine for all my life, but I’ve never got to explore it until I met my now wife (F).
For the past year as we explored, we moved from smaller plugs, to larger toys. She couldn’t take me at first but with warming up and by taking toys wider than me, she can eventually take me too.
What feels good for her is inserting it deep and having shallow strokes, while in and out movements feel like overwhelming or overstimulating.
Are there any advice so we can do strokes as well? Or basically just keep training and practicing with large toys?
She’s also interested in gaping and we try the method where I stick it in and pull out, stretch her cheeks, etc. but so far we haven’t been able to gape. Any tips for this as well?
Thanks all, safe to say this is the happiest and healthiest sex life I’ve had in any of my relationships, and that also translates to every other area of our life too. In our sessions I usually focus on her pleasure, so these questions are something we’ve both been trying to learn. We’ve also learned a lot just by reading this sub, so I appreciate the discussions here a lot.