I got someone who's interested in sexting.. She said she likes dom etc and I didn't even know exactly what it meant but after we finished she said this is how dom acts and etc but am still kinda confused..
Do sub liked getting called names? Like cum slut or something.. From my basic understanding a dom shouldn't be asking or wondering too much with their sub.. The sub just follow in curiosity.. Am considering telling her to only stay in panties today if she's doing her chores and to think of her reward..
Or telling her idc you gonna enjoy yourself today make time for it and be a good girl.
Kinda worried about stepping over a line but I don't want to keep discussing details with my sub feels not right?
I think a good solution would be to make that safe word thingy? She says it when she feels uncomfy!
Also i know I shouldn't ask but what's a good conversation starter for it.
I do some like "I've thought of you in many positions today, you've been a bad girl neglecting my needs, i miss your warmth and how you make me feel"
Is this good?
Am definitely vanilla guy but when in the mood with her am getting what she means
Don't be harsh in the comments plz my first post here idk.
Just looking for thoughts from both sub and dom