u/ACuriosititty

Wearing lingerie under my work clothes and I feel so naughty!

Just wanted to let out my excitement and how naughty I am feeling at work. I am so far able to work properly and get in the zone, but I'm in the bathroom now and the break from work and seeing my cute lace panties now makes me so excited for later. I also have a cute buttplug I will put in after work🥰

I am teasing my dom for his birthday and going to see him later while he is still working late. I will send him tease pics through the day and I just. I dont know the words but I am so excited to get into his big arms! I need his discipline so badly😭😫

I have never felt so naughty in my life!

Just needed to get it out a bit before going back to workand figured you all woukd understand the excitement🥰❤️

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u/ACuriosititty — 11 days ago

What makes you go "nope"?

I was talking to some playmates earlier and we got on this topic and I found it interesting so I'll ask it here too!

Is there something with sex that you just can't get used to or just can't enjoy?

Sim examples from my playmates were the taste of cum, getting creampied, hair getting stuck with all the sticky lube (that one was real for me too).

Mine is the little bulge that sometimes comes out at the lower part of the belly when his cock is in deep. I FREAKS me out to see it. I absolutely hate it when it happens and I catch a glimpse. I feel like I'm in alien or something.

What are some of your "nope" things?

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u/ACuriosititty — 12 days ago

Orgasm torture/forced orgasms

Hello, me again

Sorry for posting now three times here since yesterday but I have in my short time here on reddit found that I actually have a lot of questions that maybe people here can give advice on or share their experiences.

Again, I'm sorry if it's too many posts in a short time, I promise I am not a spam bot (which I guess is what a spam bot would say?).

Ok.

I have some kink/play mates at our bdsm club that really love orgasm torture and forced orgasms. Like on others/me. I really enjoy it most of the time, like the forced orgasms. but when it comes to orgasm torture, once i reach a certain point of sensitivity, especially with vibrators like the Hitachi and sitting in that chair for example where its mounted to or anyway really where its tied to me and on my pussy for long, I find I go numb. Not as much of an issue with other vibrators that are more "rumbling" if that makes sense only if theyre on high setting, but if theyre not on a high setting i dont reach that initial "too sensitive" part of orgasm torture. I haven't found anyone else there who experiences going numb like that, they say its just about how sensitive you are to it and sensitivity goes down with time? I am very sensitive and usually just need the lower settings. Is it just a matter of time? Has anyone else experienced something similar and have any input?

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u/ACuriosititty — 15 days ago

How do I manage wearing lingerie and toys while at work?

My (f26) dom (m48) has brought up that he wants me to wear plugs or lingerie under my clothes at work and that i after work come to his job. I go to his job a lot since its close to my job and he works late often. He has a huge private office and being with him there isn't really my concern, but I don't know if I'm going to be able to focus at work at all if I'm wearing anything of that sort under my work clothes. I have so far said no because I was concerned, but next week is his birthday and he is just so sweet and generous and I want to do it because I think its fun but also because I know he will love it if I send him pics through the day and surprise him.

Does anyone have experience with this? I feel like I will only be thinking of that and nothing else. If anyone here has advice or different ways to do something similar I'd greatly appreciate it!

Edit: its lingerie that he has bought me, and buttplugs.

Edit edit: i am not in the US. I understand that some places in the world, getting "caught" (which I don't see how would be possible, I am not going to undress infront of anyone at work) wearing sexy underwear or a buttplug wouldn't risk my job. I appreciate the concern and people looking out for me, but I am not seeking advice on whether this is a risk for me financially. Its not.

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u/ACuriosititty — 16 days ago

Got a guy banned and I feel bad

Hello, I am 26F and am still very new to all of this. I was introduced to play parties and bdsm through a FWB 48M, about half a year ago and I am really loving it so far.

So at this play mates party (I'm not sure of the English word for it, sex club I guess) where we go most, there has the past 3 times we have gone, a large guy who thought it was fun that I am A. relatively young compared to many there, and B. Petite and 50kgs = easy to carry. He without my consent would just take me over his shoulder, smack my butt and carry me around, and I said I did not like it when i wasnt like, doing stuff with him if that makes sense, and he first said OK and apologized so I thought all was good. But then he did it again, apologized, and then again. And this last time he did it a third time, and my FWB went to the people in charge of the parties and talked to them, and now the guy has been permanently banned. And I am both feeling good that I don't have to think about this guy being there anymore but I also don't know if straight up banning him was needed? I also maybe just feel like I'm the new one and I come in and get a guy banned. I feel like it's my fault but I also logically know that he crossed boundaries which is a cause for a ban. I feel like I shouldn't go anymore but my friend says I am just in my head about it and what people think.

Should I maybe wait a couple of times before I go again? Or am I just overreacting? I'm not sure how to proceed.

I think I just need some advice or if anyone else has experienced something similar?

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u/ACuriosititty — 17 days ago