I am a total bottom and a bit late in the game; all my friends find me cute/handsome so I was hoping for a long time that I still had a chance.
But, no.
I always put the ⬇️ sign on my profile name on apps so there’s no confusion. And explain pretty well in my profile what I am looking for: a total top (not vers, not vers top, definitely not btm, I mean how difficult it is to understand right?)
But, no
People start sexting me (they say they’re top on their profile). We exchange pics/albums. And they’re like “I can’t wait to suck your cock”. Such a mood killer.
So my question is: Are there really “total” tops who would be only into my ass and we’d accept theirs is the only dick in bed? I sometimes see a few married people mentioning it here and there but I am not convinced. Are you out there? Do you exist? Are you only looking for one night stands because there are so many bottoms out there? Or some of you still looking for relationships?