I am looking for a partner (cis f) who is submissive and wants to live as close to a 24/7 dynamic as possible. Hopefully within the state of California or surrounding states, but for the right connection I am willing to ignore that. You would be 25-33yr old, but older or slightly younger is negotiable for the right person.
Im 36, born and raised in California. Im 5’8,5’9 with work boots which I wear daily because my primary mode of transportation is a motorcycle (Harley). Ive been told that I am the stereotypical biker, big guy, tattoos, and facial hair. Currently rocking a goatee and mustache. Salt and pepper hair, probably more salt than the average 36 yr old should have (thanks genetics!). Half Mexican and half White. During summer I tan pretty dark but the white boy definitely comes out in the winter.
All that said my career usually throws people. Im told I look a lot more blue collar, but I do graphic design for a living. Love art and doing anything creative. I love working with my hands and when I’m not riding bikes I am usually working on them. I’m too old for the party/club life but don’t mind being out on the town with someone whose company I enjoy.
I grew up on 90s RnB and feel like that has really influenced my love life, but also my dominant style. I got into bdsm late and I think that was perfect for me. I learned how to be a lover, a partner before I became a Dom. So I still live that even as one.
I enjoy more of the psychological side of domination. I want to be in your head. I want to own you without force. I don’t want you to be compliant, I want you to be submissive. I do things with intent and purpose. I don’t give rules or tasks because I can. I do them to improve your life or ours. My dominance is more selfless than selfish. Even if my response is “because I said so” just know theres a deeper reason to it and you just have to trust me. Although I hardly if ever actually use that weak of communication.
Which brings me to communication. I try to be as clear and concise as possible. I will try my best to make sure you understand my expectations as best as possible and I want you to ask me if you aren’t sure on something. Im extremely reasonable, maybe to a fault at times, but do require complete obedience. Bratting is fine, but theres a time and place for it.
Kinks wise I am open to most things. I love orgasm control, especially edging both giving and receiving. I like sensory play and impact play as long as it’s not too extreme. Bondage and restraints are what got me into bdsm so will always be a big part of my play. Other than that I am open to most things except for a few limits. Nothing illegal, not into incest or underage. No animals or pet play. I don’t do scat or anything bathroom related.
If you have gotten this far and are still interested send me a message with a quick introduction, age and location, experience with kink and dynamics and what you are looking to gain out of us talking.