Why does it seem so hard to find a real person? Not a scammer or liar?
For the past 7 months, I've been trying very hard to find a SD. I'm on all the websites, reddit forums, dating apps. I don't go to events in public, which may be my down fall, but I don't know.
I've only spoken to 1 man the entire seven months. After almost 3 weeks of speaking with each other, we planned to have 2 outings with no sex in return to get to know each other better and hash out the details of our contract because I wanted a legitimate arrangement.
He says that he was laid off from work, so he can't do any of the allowances, gifts, trips, or medical support he said he would, but asked if we could still see each other casually without payment (without meeting me for those 2 dates yet either, mind you)
I'm struggling. I'm not going to sugar coat it (no pun intended) but I need money. And honestly? I'd very much enjoy being physical with someone I find attractive regularly.
The fact that I am in a serious, committed relationship might be a turn off for some of these SD. No replies to my likes or messages. Sometimes I think that maybe chubby SBs aren't what men want, and I might be a little too old (28).
Does anybody have any advice? Any other websites besides Seeking or SugarDaddyMeet? How did you eventually get your SD, and if you've had multiple, what's your secret??