u/AidenMoMo

Ive been seeing this girl for the past week. It’s been moving super quick and we’ve been having sex and sleeping together.

One night we were together I said a lot of stupid shit and came off extremely insecure about shit regarding her sexual past. Last night she wanted to hang out with me but I told her I was going to stay home as I had stuff to do and I also told her I had some things on my mind, which was another mistake as it involves her.

I know I’m an idiot, I don’t need to be ridiculed. My question is that from here on out, how do I show confidence and avoid emasculating myself to her? I also don’t know how to remain mysterious. At first I was skeptical of her but now I really want to keep her around.

I’ve never really had a serious relationship and I’m really unsure as to how to go about this and keep a girl entertained and excited.

I’m worried that once this honeymoon phase ends, she’ll get bored and think I’m a pussy and leave me.

I’m also worried she’s going to lovebomb me, she is showering me in affection and wants to see me every single day. I’ve been in that situation before where I had a girlfriend who initially was obsessed with me and then pulled away.

I already know what to do here, next her and move on.

I’ve been talking to this girl for around 3 weeks. Did a good job flirting with her initially and she immediately said / she wanted to go on a date. Seemed so obsessed with me for some reason that she even freaked out on me for leaving her on read for 5 minutes. Red flag, I know

I tried making plans and we set something up for that Monday. It rolled around and she got kind of dry. Kept taking to her for a few days, we rescheduled, and again the same thing. It’s been insanely difficult, and part of the reason is because I have a weird work schedule, but it is mostly her. A few times she’s expressed interest and countered with another day.

I already know I should have not let this drag on as long has it has. I already know what to do. But she’s saying still; “I really want to see you, it’s just that this month has been so hectic blah blah blah”

My question is why the fuck is she sporadically acting extremely interested? One of those girls that likes to just play games on dating apps for attention? Shes busy with other guys and using me as a backup / option?
I don’t need to be ridiculed in the comments and talked to like I’m a retard. Thanks

Been flirting with this girl the past couple of days and she is expressng interest in hanging out and is telling me stuff like “definetly soon :)” but she’s being kind of skittish / leading me on. What do i do here? Build a little more investment and then ask about her schedule?