u/Altruistic_North_883

for context, my bf doms in the relationship and we both love it. however, he recently told me that he would love to try and see me dom as well and laid out how he would like to be treated. the problem isn't that i'm not into treating him like that (i totally am). the problem is i suck at it.

everytime i dom, i either feel cringe and stop what i'm doing or immediately freeze up and not know what to do next. it's like i studied for an exam only to blank on everything i learned when it comes to actually taking the test. i'm not nervous, i'm just stuck and don't know what to do. i don't know where to put my hands, what to call him, etc. even though he already laid out the vibe he wants from me. we always end up stopping after a little bit and swapping again because i ran out of ideas.

TLDR: any tips on how to stop hesitating/overthinking as a dom? anything new i should try so i have more options to choose from? i want to treat him as well as he treats me and have it feel easy.

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u/Altruistic_North_883 — 25 days ago