My gf and I would like to start doing some kinky stuff but I am not quite sure how to do so
Hi girlies! I don’t know if this is the correct Reddit to ask this kind of stuff but recently my girlfriend told me that she would like to try some kinky stuff… I don’t know if it would be considered BDSM I think yes but if I am wrong I am so sorry 🥲!
So a little bit of context we been talking about our fantasies and we said that we would like to try them out. I feel a little bit aroused about the thought of having her restrained with ropes and things like that but I am not quite sure which ones are the most appropriate for the job or how to even restrain her in a way that I don’t get her injured…. Do you all have advice for this?
She also has told me that she has this fantasy about me fucking her while she’s asleep and it sound interesting but I fear to hurt her or something like that, she sounds really thrilled to do so and I heard about this practice called CNC but is it okey to just starting fucking her while she’s not aware and sleeping? She also would like me to talk her in a little bit of a more dominant way but I think I am too shy for doing that or something like that 😭😭😭☝️ I could never insult her.
For a little bit more of context I am 21 and she’s 20 we are young women starting to try out stuff