u/AnEstrogenVampire

[TF4F] Looking for a domme to use me

I'm a horny trans girl looking for a dominant woman cis or trans to use me however they want.

I'm into bondage, degradation, humiliation, exhibitionism, impact, edging, and a lot of other stuff. I'm willing to serve you however you want. I love the attention.

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 23 hours ago

[TF4F] Looking for dark fantasy, romance or just erotic lit type writing

I've got a couple of different ideas floating around that I really want to roleplay out. All of them revolve around some fantasy aspect, and I'm open to other ideas anyone has so I'm just gonna list out a couple of... I guess you could call them writing hooks.

Vampire Seductress: If my username doesn't give it away I'm into vampires. The idea of seducing a beautiful snack either with my vampiric powers or the old fashioned way feels really fun. This one would probably involve the classic vampire trope of blood drinking and could evolve into me turning you into a vampire too.

Werewolf in heat: One of my favorite things as a domme/top is primal prey and owning someone. Being a werewolf, chasing someone through the woods, capturing and breeding them just sounds so fun. You can be resistant or eager, by the end of the night you'll be mine and the next full moon both of us will run through the woods together.

Dark enchantress: This one is more of a general idea for some really creative and interesting scenes involving magic. Just being a dark sorceress who uses her magic to get into all kinds of dirty, kinky mischief. Maybe you're my apprentice. Maybe you're just someone who showed up at my towers door. Maybe you're a demon I summoned and lost control of. A succubus who I owe a favor. A rival magic user trying to defeat me or control me or whatever you want really.

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On a personal level my name is Riley. I like to go over kinks we're interested in exploring and limits before starting any kind of an exchange. Being comfortable with someone and them being comfortable with me is really important to me. So give me a little introduction of what you're looking for, something friendly but informative before we start fleshing out scene ideas.

My limits are scat and vomit, consuming alcohol myself and age play.

I look forward to hearing from anyone, and should warn you it's a bit late for me (America East Coast, EST) so if you don't hear back right away I might have fallen asleep, but will respond eventually 💖

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 23 hours ago

Where to meet other queer women online

Am I just really bad at this or is it just really hard to find other kinky queer women to talk to online? Like am I looking in the wrong subreddits? Cause it feels like I'll find one or two that respond to me because they are also trans but then the conversation just sort of fizzles out and that's it. Is there any way someone could point me in the right direction cause honestly I'm completely lost right now and so frustrated with it.

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 1 day ago

31 [TF4A] Needy and tired, please help me cum

It's really late for me and I need to go to bed soon but I'm feeling really needy right now. I'm 5'9, 250, big ass and C cups. Into a lot of kinks, I'll give you my limits before we start.

I just really need someone to make me cum. Roleplay with me. Tell me you want me. I just need the attention right desperately. So make your intro interesting please. I promise I'll make it worth it.

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 2 days ago

31 [TF4F/TF] Mommy needs a princess to be mean to

Basically what the title says. Looking for a cute, sweet, needy thing who wants to let me play rough with them.

I'm in a pretty sadistic mood, but am willing to oscillate between kind and mean if you're into that sort of mind fuck thing (it makes it even sweeter for me to make you moan in sweet pain after being so gentle with you). I can get pretty primal so petgirls are always a plus. And the edgier you want to get the better.

Please include your age when messaging me and a cute intro to get me interested. I look forward to hearing from you darlings

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 4 days ago

Needing advice on ending a complicated dynamic

For the last few years I've identified as a bottom leaning switch. I've had a domme for almost two years now, we're in a D/s relationship, she has collared me. But being that I'm a switch I was also a domme for my spouse who is super submissive.

Recently I realized I wasn't feeling like much of a switch. Like I would occasionally switch my dynamic around with my domme and would be in charge for a few months so she could get some of her sub energy out, but I recently told her I wasn't sure I wanted to do that anymore. We renegotiated and agreed I would service top her when she wanted it for a scene but that I wouldn't ever be in charge anymore. I am okay with this, I WANT this. Because I've slowly realized over the last year I have very little desire to be a full time domme. It isn't who I am, I can't maintain the energy I need to do it for more than an hour or two.

So a couple of days ago I expressed this to my spouse (my sub) and told them I didn't think I was a domme anymore. (And for context we are all poly, my sub and domme are both in a non-kink relationship.) I expressed that I didn't feel like I had the ability to give them what they needed, that I felt they deserved a domme who could meet their needs as a submissive. I paused their obedience app, and have been giving them their space as requested, but they're still wearing their day collar. And they told me they want to talk tonight.

I want to make this conversation as easy as possible for both of us but I don't know how to express my feelings any more clearly. I can't be a domme, I can't force a dynamic. So does anyone have any advice on making that easier?

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 6 days ago

31 [TF4T] Looking for people to chat and have fun with

Essentially like the title says, I'm just looking for other trans people close to my own age to chat with and maybe have some fun with if we vibe on that level.

I've been on hormones 3 years, I'm very comfortable in my identity and am always willing to talk about anything related to transitioning for those who are interested in talking about those sorts of things.

On a personal level I'm the nerdy type, TTRPGS, video games, fantasy novels, comic books. I'm a bit of a writer too, especially when it comes to spicy content I've learned recently. So if you're into any of that we'll probably have some common ground.

I'm bisexual, and a bottom leaning switch. I usually default to submissive with mascs but for femmes I'm very capable of being a domme for a scene at least but I can't bring that energy all the time. It just isn't who I am. My big kinks are bondage (especially rope), edging/denial and degradation. As a submissive I'm really into service. As a domme I've got a lot of primal energy, but I'm also big on praising someone and making them feel owned if they're into that.

So if you're into any of that I would love to talk.

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 11 days ago

Need advice about newly discovered degradation kink and being trans

CW: transphobia, homophobia

For context I'm a trans woman who is very comfortable in her identity and recently realized that I'm into being degraded in a way that targets and invalidates my gender.

Like the title says I need advice about my degradation kink and specifically how it relates to me being trans. Earlier today I had another trans woman message me in response to a post looking for degradation. I know that a lot of us have insecurities and I never want to make someone uncomfortable so I expressed I wasn't expecting to talk to another trans person and that while I was interested I didn't want to make them uncomfortable. They expressed that taking away their chance to decide if they were comfortable and feeling "othered" for being trans took them out of the mood.

So I guess my question is does anyone have any advice on how to approach another trans person about having them degrade me in a way that uses slurs and avoid making them uncomfortable at the same time? I would never want to trigger somebody with something like that by even just talking about it.

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 12 days ago

31 [tf4F] Looking for dominant woman to test a theory and maybe form a connection

I'm a bottom leaning switch looking to test a theory and hopefully make a connection over it. Basically I'm trying to figure out if I like being degraded by women as much as I do by men.

In the past I've only ever talked to women so I've got plenty of experience with dominant women. But I'm really interesting if seeing if some of my newer kinks I've discovered only apply to men or if they're even across the board with women too.

A little bit about me. I'm a nerdy, bottom leaning switch who really prefers being submissive. I'm into rope, degradation, edging and I'm a pretty big masochist. There are lots of other things I'm into and I'd be happy to expand upon the list in conversation.

As far as being a nerd goes I'm into TTRPGS (D&D, etc.) fantasy novels, rpg video games, and writing. All also things I'd love to expand upon in conversation.

Also I'm very comfortable with my gender identity and am perfectly happy to talk about being transgender. It's something I love sharing about myself and love when people take an interest in it!

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 13 days ago

31 [TF4A] Looking for fellow horny, nerds to be horny and nerdy with

I'm a trans woman who has been on hormones for 3 years and is finally trying to come out of her shell. I've recently realized that I've been missing having friends who share any common interests with me. I'm a horny, kinky, nerdy trans woman who really likes talking with people about being a horny, kinky, nerdy trans woman.

As far as horny/kinks go I'm a bottom leaning switch and very submissive most of the time. I'm a service sub, I want to make you happy. My really big kinks as a submissive are bondage (especially rope/shibari), being humiliated/general degradation, and serving someone else. My idea life is being a housewife who makes sure the house is always clean, dinner is always cooked and I'm always available for stress relief.

As a nerd I'm really into fantasy, especially dark fantasy, table top roleplaying games (D&D and pathfinder are long time faves), RPGs in general and comics to list a few things. I'm also a bit of a writer, I like designing my own lore for my tabletop games and I've been kicking around a few different book ideas for forever.

I always love talking about trans stuff for anyone who is genuinely curious about my experiences. I have no problem with people who are inexperienced when interacting with trans people and am very forgiving.

If you're male I do have very little experience interacting with men in a kink/sexual way so I might be awkward at first. I am poly and all of my partners are assigned female at birth or other trans women so I'd really like to meet some men who are both interested in my body and in chatting.

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u/AnEstrogenVampire — 14 days ago