u/Ancient_Economy_8954

36 [M4F] # London / Bucks, experienced Dom seeking long term sub / couple

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Hey there,

I’m a 36-year-old white Master/Dom based in Bucks with easy access into central London. I’ve been actively living this lifestyle since I was 19 – that’s seventeen years of real, hands-on experience guiding, training, and owning subs and slaves. I’ve worked with girls who were brand new and with experienced ones, and I’ve also spent time as a Bull for couples where the dynamic was already established. I know what it takes to build something that lasts.

I’m looking for a long-term connection – not casual play, not weekend scenes. I want a genuine power-exchange relationship where you understand that your submission is the foundation, and I take the responsibility that comes with ownership seriously. Whether you’re single and ready to

be collared full-time, or you’re part of a couple looking to add a real Dom into the dynamic (cuck/hotwife, stag/vixen, or just me leading both of you), you’re welcome.

Physically: I’m 95 kg, gym-active, broad-shouldered and in good shape. I take care of myself and expect the same level of effort from you – sexual attraction and chemistry matter to me. But the most important thing is mindset. I’m drawn to someone who craves structure, discipline, and the

freedom that comes from true surrender. Intelligence, loyalty, and the desire to please are non-negotiable.

For the right girl or couple, I’m also open to providing all kinds of support making your life easier so you can focus on serving. If you’re serious about long-term D/s or M/s, send me a proper message. Tell me about you, your experience level, what you’re hoping to find, and why you think we might click. A photo will get a faster reply – I’m happy to verify and share mine too.

No time-wasters, no endless chat without intent. If you’re ready to be claimed and shaped, I’m

ready to lead.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

– Sir

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u/Ancient_Economy_8954 — 5 days ago

36 [M4F] # London / Bucks, experienced Dom seeking long term sub / couple

​

Hey there,

I’m a 36-year-old white Master/Dom based in Bucks with easy access into central London. I’ve been actively living this lifestyle since I was 19 – that’s seventeen years of real, hands-on experience guiding, training, and owning subs and slaves. I’ve worked with girls who were brand new and with experienced ones, and I’ve also spent time as a Bull for couples where the dynamic was already established. I know what it takes to build something that lasts.

I’m looking for a long-term connection – not casual play, not weekend scenes. I want a genuine power-exchange relationship where you understand that your submission is the foundation, and I take the responsibility that comes with ownership seriously. Whether you’re single and ready to

be collared full-time, or you’re part of a couple looking to add a real Dom into the dynamic (cuck/hotwife, stag/vixen, or just me leading both of you), you’re welcome.

Physically: I’m 95 kg, gym-active, broad-shouldered and in good shape. I take care of myself and expect the same level of effort from you – sexual attraction and chemistry matter to me. But the most important thing is mindset. I’m drawn to someone who craves structure, discipline, and the

freedom that comes from true surrender. Intelligence, loyalty, and the desire to please are non-negotiable.

For the right girl or couple, I’m also open to providing all kinds of support making your life easier so you can focus on serving. If you’re serious about long-term D/s or M/s, send me a proper message. Tell me about you, your experience level, what you’re hoping to find, and why you think we might click. A photo will get a faster reply – I’m happy to verify and share mine too.

No time-wasters, no endless chat without intent. If you’re ready to be claimed and shaped, I’m

ready to lead.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

– Sir

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u/Ancient_Economy_8954 — 5 days ago

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Hello

I'm a 36 years old Dom from Buckinghamshire with 17 years of lifestyle experience. Since 19, I've trained submissive and sex slaves (both online and irl) in dynamics ranging from structured short-term engagements to deep, long-term power exchanges. Whether you're new, curious or already seasoned, I offer stability, control and framework to help you grow.

About me:

-6'2, white, 95kg, gym active

-open to online or / and eventually in-person depending on connection

-calm, focused, articulate. I value structure, purpose and mutual intent

-deeply familiar with obedience training, protocol, objectification, orgasm control, degradation and a lot more (always open to negotiation)

-highly educated and professionally successful, I bring structure and self-discipline to all aspects of life

-experienced with subs who are in a relationship

What I'm looking for:

-sub/slave/couple. No experience required, just genuine curiosity and desire to submit

-long term dynamic prefered vit open to short term as well

-sexual attraction is important, but I'm more drawn to attitude, obedience and presence more than a body type

-eagerness to serve, emotional honesty, consistency and open communication are essential

I prefer detailed, thoughtful messages over one-liners and understand the realities of time and commitment. Support (in all forms, even financial) can be a part of a dynamic when earned

If this speaks to something in you, introduce yourself thoughtfully (age, locations, experience, interests, limits, what you're looking for).

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u/Ancient_Economy_8954 — 21 days ago

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Hello

I'm a 36 years old Dom from Buckinghamshire with 17 years of lifestyle experience. Since 19, I've trained submissive and sex slaves (both online and irl) in dynamics ranging from structured short-term engagements to deep, long-term power exchanges. Whether you're new, curious or already seasoned, I offer stability, control and framework to help you grow.

About me:

-6'2, white, 95kg, gym active

-open to online or / and eventually in-person depending on connection

-calm, focused, articulate. I value structure, purpose and mutual intent

-deeply familiar with obedience training, protocol, objectification, orgasm control, degradation and a lot more (always open to negotiation)

-highly educated and professionally successful, I bring structure and self-discipline to all aspects of life

-experienced with subs who are in a relationship

What I'm looking for:

-sub/slave/couple. No experience required, just genuine curiosity and desire to submit

-long term dynamic prefered vit open to short term as well

-sexual attraction is important, but I'm more drawn to attitude, obedience and presence more than a body type

-eagerness to serve, emotional honesty, consistency and open communication are essential

I prefer detailed, thoughtful messages over one-liners and understand the realities of time and commitment. Support (in all forms, even financial) can be a part of a dynamic when earned

If this speaks to something in you, introduce yourself thoughtfully (age, locations, experience, interests, limits, what you're looking for).

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u/Ancient_Economy_8954 — 21 days ago

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Hello

I'm a 36 years old Dom from Buckinghamshire with 17 years of lifestyle experience. Since 19, I've trained submissive and sex slaves (both online and irl) in dynamics ranging from structured short-term engagements to deep, long-term power exchanges. Whether you're new, curious or already seasoned, I offer stability, control and framework to help you grow.

About me:

-6'2, white, 95kg, gym active

-open to online or / and eventually in-person depending on connection

-calm, focused, articulate. I value structure, purpose and mutual intent

-deeply familiar with obedience training, protocol, objectification, orgasm control, degradation and a lot more (always open to negotiation)

-highly educated and professionally successful, I bring structure and self-discipline to all aspects of life

-experienced with subs who are in a relationship

What I'm looking for:

-sub/slave/couple. No experience required, just genuine curiosity and desire to submit

-long term dynamic prefered vit open to short term as well

-sexual attraction is important, but I'm more drawn to attitude, obedience and presence more than a body type

-eagerness to serve, emotional honesty, consistency and open communication are essential

I prefer detailed, thoughtful messages over one-liners and understand the realities of time and commitment. Support (in all forms, even financial) can be a part of a dynamic when earned

If this speaks to something in you, introduce yourself thoughtfully (age, locations, experience, interests, limits, what you're looking for).

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u/Ancient_Economy_8954 — 21 days ago