sexual duality
do you guys (ladies in particular) have a preference for folks with very opposite dualities when it comes to sexual identity versus real-life identity?
I find it extra hot when a lady is super submissive in bed but is an iron lady in her real life.
bonus points if she's into being degraded as part of the fun.
a partner I had once explained it as she preferring to give up control in the bedroom because she's tired of having to take charge in her professional life.
she craves the subjugation because it releases her from that mental effort that she has to exert every day.
another lady has a very religious outside persona (think tudung labuh, ustazah material) but is the complete opposite internally (loves teasing men with nothing on under her abaya in public, letting her fantasies run wild with a particular emphasis on corruption kink)
had a lot of fun sharing fantasies & making them reality with both ladies~
really enjoyed my times with them, and curious to hear other experiences out there.
do share!~