Feeling like I’m out of options
I live between two counties. This was set up via my last arrangement, and it’s changed my life in many positive ways. I am now the one maintaining the lifestyle. I work full time, but as I am remote, I’m very flexible in terms of travel. The thing is: I’m now spending a majority of my time in a high tourist destination in order to maintain my residency. I’d like to enter into another arrangement, but the main website for finding a relationship doesn’t even register the area. It actually shows as “unknown”. Not great for laying a foundation of trust. I’ve considered freestyling.
I’m also imagining this to be a challenge due to the tourism aspect: I’m not interested in entertaining men who are here for on holiday/a week or so. That’s simply not me or my lifestyle. I’ve had two previous arrangements- the first was a year, and the second was 4 years (a very well taken care of mistress).
Am I looking at an uphill battle here?
Footnote: yes this is a newer account, but that’s because my other one has a very strong digital footprint.