Hi thanks for clicking this, unfortunately it's a bit of a read. Here's hoping you have a personality, a sense of humor, and that this resonates with you, onto my post: I work from home, and I spend long stretches of time alone. Looking to create an actual relationship of substance, daily check ins, spending time together, play games together, watching movies together, just all that couple stuff. (I miss it)
I want you to help us create a meaningful, and emotionally fulfilling dynamic together. The second thing I want to talk about is that this isn't just about sex. Yes, it's a big part of this, I won't argue that but I want to create something with you. A long term, emotionally fulfilling, passionate, and fun experience. I want to nurture you, to take of you, to support, and encourage you. I want us to be companions who share a deep abiding mutual respect for one another. I want to be deeply involved in your life, and you in mine. I want us to be friends, and all that entails.
I'm not one of those people who can just vomit paragraphs about themselves. I'll be honest talking about myself has never been something I've really enjoyed, or excelled at but for the purposes of this post, and what I hope to achieve I'll get into a little about who I am. To be honest I am doing this so you know whom you are considering opening yourself to. I am showing you who is reaching out to you, hoping to connect with you.
So about me I am intelligent, well spoken, kind, supportive, patient, and firm. I'm not trying to brag or convince you of my qualities, allow me the chance to show you that I am who I say I am. Your trust, and respect mean everything to me, and I want to foster that. Further more I've been doing this for a number of years and have figured what works best for me and how to take care of and nurture people.
My goals for what I'm trying to create with you. I want a long term, stable, fun, and exciting dynamic where we are both content, and fulfilled. I want this to primarily be exciting, passionate, and rewarding for both of us. I've always felt that just because I lead the relationship, control, and manage you that doesn't mean the focus is solely on me. A balanced approach where your needs, desires, and mine as well are all met with a mutually joyful response. Ultimately I want you happy, healthy, encouraged, and supported.
In regards to my kinks and desires, here are a few, my hopes are that you are open to exploring them with me:
Orgasm/pleasure control, Tasks, Edging, Toys, Pain play, Nipple and Breast play, Begging, Body Writing, Wardrobe Control, Anal Play, Free use
And more, if there is something you are into and don't see on here please bring it up. I've been doing this a long time, chances are if it makes you happy, if it turns you on, I am more than willing to explore it with you.
I also want to speak about limits, I think everyone needs limits, and it's good that you have your own. I encourage you to speak to me about yours. Mine are as follows:
Cutting, Blood, Scarring, Damage, Scat, Vomit and more.
What I'm looking to create is a fun dynamic with a lot of interaction. I really need someone who has a lot of time to interact and engage me. I don't want someone who can only message me while at work, or for the 15 minutes she has for lunch. I want someone who has time, energy, and a willingness to interact with me frequently. So if you don't have the freedom, or time to give to someone please don't message, that's not what I'm looking for.