u/Beneficial-Ant-9424

Background; I have been a Dominant/Top type since I was (18), originally I started in DDLG but as time has gone on I have evolved. In ‘24 I started attending kink parties, and dungeons and have developed into the Dominant type I am today. I have always been a quiet-type (I have social anxiety, plus neurodivergence so I am picky and particular about words.) This has never been a problem, I am better at writing than I am speaking out loud so I have tons of educational kink documents/worksheets that I have written over the last couple of years. But, I haven’t mentored/educated someone in a lonnnng time in person as I usually encountered & played with experienced partners over that span of time. My girlfriend (my new partner), is very curious about kink and doing all the things but she has very limited sexual partner experience, kink experience etc. We’ve discussed the things she wants to do, threesomes, couple play, kink parties, etc. No D/s dynamic at this time, so I suppose I Top her more than anything else. I do however make a lot of the decisions, and she looks at me to make decisions for her since she’s indecisive. How do I approach her, introduce kinks to her, make decisions in a productive manner that isn’t just a bunch of worksheets like homework and a bunch of questions and writing?