u/Big-Green-909

I know about Mindgasm and binaural beats. What else do people watch to zone out and relax?

I'm having trouble getting aroused while staying relaxed. For me, arousal includes lot of movement, and faster breathing. Most of all arousal means racings thoughts....not relaxation. How can you do both at the same time?

I’m just wondering if there’s any point in using the toy without focusing on the experience.