30 [MtF4M/MF] Help me explore?
IF THIS POST IS STILL UP I HAVE NOT FOUND SOMEONE OR A COUPLE YET.
You can call me J, I am trans (born a male) and identify as non-binary (NB for short. I use they them pronouns but I am also okay with she/her and words like femboy. Pretty much anything non-masculine. I am only three years (in August) into my transition and a lot of the cahnges are slow. My next step is having full laser hair removal.
However, I want you to keep that in mind because I have no plans for surgery and am still ealry in my transitioning. I have many nudes on my profile so you can get an idea of what my full body looks like. I'm 5 '11, mostly skinny, nice ass and small boobs.
I am pansexual and do not care what gender you are so long as you, or if you are a couple, one of you has a dick and or can help me find dick, we are good. I am in a relationship with the love of my life, they know I'm posting this. No, they will not be involved if you are a single male. They are open to playing with others tho but this isn't a couples ad. Before you ask, no, I am not looking to leave or change my relationship.
I am mostly a geeky homebody/hobbyist seen hiking in nature, going to museums, art galleries, parks and conventions as I have a lot of freetime due to being permanently disabled and not being able to work. It's a disablity called Ankylosing Spondylitis, no it won't effect you or the sex. I tend to live life know the older I get the worse it will be so that is why I do the best to live life now.
I have a passion for traveling and enjoy seeing new places. I love all things nature, japan, music, art, painting, hiking, mechs, science, insects, VHS collecting, horror movies, old retro tech from the 70s-90s and just love to learn/discover new things all the time.
Sexually, while I may be very expirenced with women, I am very inexperienced with people who have penises. I do not care what your skin color is. I don't care if you are fat, fit, skinny, short, tall or buff. I get more turned on by someones mind then what they look like naked but I will let you know right away if we are not a good fit and explain why I feel that way, I don't ghost people. I'm just an ethical slut, tbh. I know where I like to be touched and where I don't. I know myself and my body very, very well.
I have experimented with dildos solo, been pegged by past ex-girlfriends and so I know I enjoy anal quite a lot. I also am kinda loud and moan during sex, lol. I can host if need be but I do require you also be able to host, it doesn't have to be at your place. It could be a hotel or Airbnb.
The catch is, I am insanely picky, health cautious and have a rather high sex drive. I definitely also know, I don't want this to be a one time thing and or hook up.
I prefer a reoccurring FWB and or a couple is what I am lening to, where we have regular sex but also be genuine friends as well.
You don't have to hit every single thing on this list but this is ideally what I am looking for. So my ideal preferences are:
• You prefer to take things slow at first as we get to know eachother. Daily conversations for a few days.
• You are over the age of 24 but under 66. I prefer my ago or older.
• You are more into the mental head games/corruption that can turn somone on.
• You have good hygiene.
• You will treat me like a princess, bathing me, dressing me up and etc. Aka, you are nurturing but also kinky.
• You will meet in a public place to say hi after talking online.
• You are okay with taking the lead around someone more shy. You prefer to top.
• You are often described as a daddy dom or gentle dom type.
• You prefer an ongoing and reoccurring fwb type of situation over a fling or hook up.
• You must be okay with kissing and cuddling.
• You live in or can travel to Seattle. I can host if need be.
• You have a very high sex drive and are more kinky then I.
• You love seeing someone in ecstasy over your cum.
• You are bold/direct/upfront about what you like and don't like.
• You enjoy conversations with cuddling before and after sex.
• You wouldn't mind licking the soles of my soft feet if they are clean.
• You are open to trying pissplay on me (as long as you are fully hydrated.)
• You are free at least three times a month.
• You get regularly tested for all STDs and HIV at least once every 2-3 months.
• You will get tested before we have sex as will I.
• You honor consent and will not push a no.
• You are open to "Raw" or bareback sex and open to cuming in me after we both test and everything comes back clear. Until then, good with condoms.
• You would be very excited to do this (the more eager the better).
• You are also in a relationship, your partner knows and you are not looking to change that.
• You are at least bi or pansexual, just a preference here.
• You have a high drive and kinky mind, hopefully more kinky then I.
• You support trans rights, BLM and believe we are on stolen land.
• You enjoy texting, sharing ideas, porn and talking throughout the day from time to time.
Talk to you soon\\\~♥️😽