Why good Grindr hook ups disappear after the first time?
Hey everyone, I'm a 25M living in Europe and I've been using Grindr for fun in the last few years.
Something that happened to me countless times and can't understand is why after meeting the first time I either get ghosted or blocked?
Obviously I'm considering only about when I meet guys that I have a good feeling with and we had together a good time and fun sex. The crazy thing is that many of them also make plans and invite me to hook up again or to do other different activities while we're together and much more.
With some other people before we left I tried to openly talk about meeting again but that also doesn't work and they end up lying for no reasons.
If it can help I'm a very easy going and chill guy, with a bit of an alternative style, with photos that are worst than how I actually look as far as people told me, tall and with a big tool.
Those hook ups last usually a few hours while we can have more rounds and always include lots of cuddles, talks, good moments together and fun.
Am I the only one who experienced this? Why to lie and behave like this when it's more than clear either from my profile and what I say that I'm also good with hooking up only?
Thanks in advance, I'm very tired of keep missing further chances with people that I'm much into and so I want to understand what I'm doing wrong.
P.s. Of course I'm not looking for love on Grindr but even just to become friends with benefits or whatever would be nice