u/Bubbly_Union_9484

Looking for my baby bro or sis for casual texts, chats, play, and pic trades to lead to a long-term friendship with benefits. As a professional with a segmented life built around this lifestyle who has been in this for a long time but cautious about community involvement, I know exactly what I want and who can fit into this section of my life.

Into: sweet ageplay, dark ageplay, diaper loving, middlespace, 90's-2000's pop culture

Limits: emitophilia, open diaper scat, drool, cum, receiving anal, furryism, catheterisation, blood/gore stuff

You must be socially mature, meaning independent and able to handle only check-ins some days. And emotionally mature, meaning using common sense and etiquette as we get to know each other, as I would not like to be a punching bag to dump trauma and rants to. I have a wife (who is totally into this but also private), high power career, close family that I do not involve of course, and a wide friend group that also has no idea of course.

There must be some mutual physical attraction but this would be a friendly, non-romantic arrangement, clear and firm boundaries to be established as we get to know each other. I am predominately attracted to petite femmes of all sorts, though smaller than myself: a hairy 5'8" average built 170lb gnome-in-training with funky style.

You also must be socially liberal or at least progressive, though politics and social justice should not be the majority of our discussions, just knowing that we have some shared values. Additionally, it would help to be literate, cultured, and into some of the same entertainment.

Over time, as your big, it is my goal to be one source of care, amongst many, of fun, responsibility, and friendship in both littlespace and in your life. This is to be a real friendship built on respect, transparency, and understanding from the get-go. Not anonymous fantasy.

We need some esoteric flair; a sigil, some mantras, a hierarchy to take advantage of uncritical thinkers, and some sort of grand truth that we keep behind the curtain! Oh, and a color scheme for robes! Maybe they're white and embroidered or printed with the Abena motif? Just suggestions! 🤘🤭🚼🛐

At least in my experience, the orgasm in a diaper is more mental than physical. Manipulating my genitals outside of the diaper is much more physically intense, nerves being directly activated than ever possible in padding. After now experiencing "ruined" orgasms (in which you're edged to orgasm and then all stimulation is ceased, in order to make the endorphins fall at peak as punishment), it seems like not an identical experience, but a very similar one. Even when using a vibrator, humping, and in thin padding, the orgasm is never as physically fulfilling as hand stuff, which I find the most satisfying. But of course, I still don't feel as "safe" as I do in a diaper. When cumming in my diapers, I find these orgasms the most mentally and psychologically rewarding though physically still craving satisfaction after comedown. I'm wondering how common these sorts of feelings are, and what others' experiences are, as well as if anyone has an identical dilemma.