there are so many subs desperately seeking dommes and i think we need to be there for each other until someone finally snatches us up 🤣 we just need to be able go loudly complain and work ourselves into a frenzy discussing out fantasies 🤭
i see some stuff talking about lesbians learning theyre bi but so much of it is about “turning them straight.” is there a reason its treated as black or white? is it not as attractive if your fantasy ex-dyke still likes girls? i genuinely do not get why bisexuality is barely mentioned here
also, not quite the same topic but why do we act like u have to be sexually attracted to guys to wanna get fucked by one? im in it for the love of the game, as long as its not boring lmao
edit: its not hot and its boring is not constructive criticism and you have failed the class if thats your response
I want to be kept and trained to be someone’s pet/toy. I’m looking for someone who can be a close friend or partner that can also push me to my limits until I can’t take anymore, that can make me comfortable and scared of what might happen next at the same time.
I’m rly into dollification, petplay, bondage, masochism, chastity, degradation, praise, edging/denial, hypno, as well a lot of other things. On the other hand my main limits are scat/vomit, permanent scaring, growing my hair (gender dysphoria can hit like a truck), most filth, and we can discuss these in more detail. I’m also willing to be trained/conditioned to enjoy more depending on your needs 🤭
I do want to be able to enjoy each others company outside of kink and would prefer to get to know someone more before any dynamic is put in place. It can take me a while to fully open up and allow myself to get into full subspace, I want to know that I can stop thinking and just follow your commands without being taken advantage of. It’s not hard for me to shut down if i feel overwhelmed or like someone is trying to get more out of me than I have the energy to give at that moment.
If you do message me please include your name, age, gender, rough location, and that you’re straightforward about what you want. If you aren’t interested in getting to know each other do not even bother messaging me
(Hopefully I’m doing this right 😓If not I can remove this)
I’ve been considering this for a pretty long time, I have wanted to be taken and kept as someones pet or toy for almost 4 years now but my main fantasies and kinky daydreams have included these themes for even longer. I fully understand that there is a huge risk with this that you need to be extra cautious with and I am prepared to take that risk.
Before anything else I do want to mention that I struggle with mental health. At moments when I don’t trust myself to make good choices I will say so (and I usually become withdrawn or quiet).
As a general rundown I would want an “owner” that would play with me like a toy and push me past my limits but when not in scene it can be a much gentler type of relationship, whether romantic or not doesn’t matter. I love the idea of being able to comfortably watch a movie with someone right before they tie me up and make me beg for a break which I would not get. Make me sleep in a cage, cover me in bruises and cuts, do everything you can to remind me that I belong to you and I’m no longer human when we’re together no matter what I do outside of scene. I want to be excited and scared to see what you’re gonna do to me next time I see you.
Some of my many kinks include:
Masochism(Estim, impact, bloodplay, etc)
Bondage
Dollification
Hypno
Edging/denial (i rly wanna be conditioned so i cant cum without someones permission)
Degradation or praise
Exhibitionism
Breeding/hucow
pet play
and a lot more that we can discuss as we get to know each other.
Limits:
Scat/vomit
Other filth is a weird grey spot
Permanent scarring
Pregnancy (which directly conflicts with my breeding kink 😭😭😭)
Requesting that I grow my hair or remove my tattoos
I’m more comfortable with women or fem-leaning enbies, but I am willing to try getting to know other ppl. Before even considering meeting up I would want to get to know you more as a person as well as your kinks/limits/thoughts on how things could go. If you message me you have to include name, age, gender, rough area of where you live, a selfie, and what kind of dynamic you’re looking for, including how we would interact outside of scene. I have a lot more info, including some posts mentioning my mental health, and pics on my profile if you wanna use that as a bit of a resume lmao
Example first message
“Hi I’m Rae, 25/F NB, from Wisconsin. I’m looking for someone to take control and use me” if u rly dont wanna send an image at first, thats fine but pls follow a similar format to this so I know you’re serious and that you read my full post.
4 years of putting myself out there and the most i can find is an already existing friend into similar stuff willing to rp or smth for a bit. fetlife is either dead or only results in dudes saying they wanna stick their dicks in me, dating apps barely even work for meeting ppl without adding kink, trying to meet ppl thru online communities leads to nothing, and irl events just get depressing when everyone is in their little groups or pairs and seem like they dont want anyone else talking to them. i know its not my looks that are the problem, when ppl get the chance to look they take it without hesitation. it feels like ppl lose interest when they try talking to me because i cant be “on” 100% of the time.
is there even anything left to try? i feel like ive exhausted all available options, has anyone else felt like this?
anyone have any suggestions or ideas to try mimicking this kind of thing solo? i know a lot of it can be dangerous and the whole point is being held “captive” but would there be a way to get a similar feeling without a partner? sadly im in a very non-kinky area so its p much impossible to find ppl that wanna do this who arent fake doms
been wanting to try out my biggest dildo for a while and i feel like this is the perfect time 🤭🤭🤭 give me something to think about at work so im a desperate mess when i get home