How did I convinced my GF to fuck other guys (two times).
I’ve been opening up about my sex life here and receiving some questions about it. The most frequent one is: “how can I convince my girl to have casual sex with other guys?”.
I personally (M23) and my current girlfriend (M27) never had to talk much about it. The reason for this is that I come from a previous relationship where I tried it and it failed spectacularly.
My ex profile was:
-ex-church girl
-3-4 ex boyfriends
-About 10-12 bodies
Why it failed:
She never really got excited with it. She was kinda into ménage, but never liked the idea of having casual sex with random people.
What it generated:
-She lost respect and admiration for me.
-We stopped working as a couple.
-She resents me because I made her feel like a slut, and she doesn’t like this feeling.
My advice:
Oppositely to what the post says, this is not a guide, but a partner search advice: You should not try to bring a conservative person into the lifestyle. Changing partners will be easier and less traumatic for both parts.
Instead, you should take the lifestyle into consideration from the early days:
-Does this person like casual sex?
-Is she conservative? Does cuckolding aligns with her values?
-Did she had an open relationship?
-Is she able to have sex without attachment?
-Did she ever cheated or had an affair?
If most answers are yes, then you have a fucking incredible partner that will love you and will have a great time. I’m having the best time of my life because I’m fully filled by loving my partner and knowing we enjoy the same stuff. She’s not replaceable and I’m not replaceable to her.
Tips that I used to find her:
-Go for older girls.
Younger girls usually see the lifestyle as something wrong. They’re not fully connected with their inner sexuality and don’t see sex the same way we do (men).
-Make some search on their past.
My current girlfriend was a “THOT” (I don’t like the term but it’s shorter to write). She had sex with a lot of boys during high school and college. She felt extremely guilty because she was repressed and I was one of the first people who fully loved her for who she is.
-TikTok is better than instagram.
Most girls use TikTok more freely than instagram (in my experience). They comment, post and like stuff they wouldn’t on instagram.
Don’t try to ask about it during the approach, bring it up eventually. She was always condemned by her desires, she will not open up with anyone.
What about you? Any tips for cucks trying to find their soulmates? How did you do it?