So my GF and I have been together for 4 years, she’s known about my kinks and that I’m into the idea of her being with someone else. She opened up to it a tiny bit last year after being against it, but it never really went past her flirting at a bar/club in front of me and roleplay in bed.
The last few months we’ve been facing some more serious relationship issues including communication gaps. A few weeks ago, she agreed we put kink on hold until that’s fixed
Last night I got back home to my apartment (we don’t live together but she was staying over this week) at around 7PM after the gym. She isn’t home so I figured she went on a walk or something, gave it 30 minutes to ask her where she was. Didn’t hear back for an hour, then two, so checked in on if she was okay.
I didn’t hear back until 10:30, with a “I’m good getting a drink”. Okay whatever, I figure she has the keys to my place she’d come back
Woke up at 6:30, not home. I’m now kinda worried so text again and then call a few times, and just get an “I’m ok” text back at 7:30.
Her car has been outside the whole time. Her apartment is an hour away. And she has no friends or anyone close by that she could’ve stayed with. So I’m not sure where she could’ve been other than with someone she met at the bar (or a hotel ig)
While part of me thinks the idea of that is hot, am I overreacting by being angry/frustrated about the lack of communication…?