40 [M4F] #Seattle Worth a read.
You made it this far so we are off to a great start!
I have been a lurker on Reddit for years and have had my fair share of connections and meetups and the like and have decided to stop lurking and jump into the deep end….
My target audience: The women who sit in the margins, read the posts and want to dip a toe in the water but maybe just aren’t comfortable with a “Reddit” man (which I don’t blame you)! You know what you want, are maybe a bit older, more experienced, not wanting the 2026 “dating scene” (again, don’t blame you), wanting to be desired, to be wanted, to be seen and to have a man look at you in that way that you know he’s fighting every urge to not just throw you over his shoulder and carry you back to his cave (ok, a bit much but you get the idea).
Why Me:
I am not your average middle aged guy on Reddit looking for whatever has a pulse and just hoping to say the right thing long enough to get you in the sack. I am experienced, I am educated, secure, well read, well traveled and can carry on a conversation outside of “hi”…..I know what I want, I am confident (a bit cocky), stable with ZERO baby mama drama or ex this or that waiting in the wings, don’t have a beer belly to May ball sack and have more hair on my head than anywhere else!
I am good looking (back to the cocky part). I am muscular, have broad shoulders that make door ways look small, biceps that test the elastic in my t-shirts with that vein the runs from my hand up my forearm through my bicep that bulges when I move my arms, with a back and chest of a gorilla (ok a bit of an over statement but you get the idea), I am tall 6’2”, great smile, kind eyes (that hide fairly well all the dirty things I am thinking about),
I am not a 2026 man, I hold doors, I hold hands, I would rather die then ever ask a woman to “Venmo” me for their portion of a date (your company is payment enough), I drive (well), I don’t live in anyone’s basement, I know how to guide a woman into a room, how to tip, how to be kind (and unkind when warranted), I am big enough to make you feel small and safe and protected and use that well.
I don’t need guidance on the female anatomy, I am adventurous, Dominant, know how to get a “Yes Sir” without asking, once is never enough, and if you aren’t begging for something than I feel I am not living up to me end of the deal.
I am articulate and know how to use your brain to get to your body and how to make sure once I am there you don’t ever forget. That may sound vague but once you experience it you will understand.
I am good with forever or for tonight, no pressure or expectations but by all means finding my forever on here would be amazing, finding good company for a drink or dinner or whatever would also be amazing.
Well if 1-6 hasn’t done it then I am not the one for you and wish you the best!
Looking forward to what comes next….