[M4F] - Claiming a submissive woman
Do you feel tired, worn out and stressed when you come home from work? Do you ever wish you could come home and let go of your control, let go of the stress, the burdens and the responsibility? Do you ever desire to just be able to relax and turn your brain off? Do you ever wish you could have someone to rely on, someone who can be there for you, someone who can make you forget the world around you and just exist right there in the moment?
Perhaps this is the dynamic for you.
A submissive woman craves a confident man who can lead her. She craves a protective man who makes her feel safe. She craves an attentive man who makes her feel seen and heard. She craves an assertive man who knows how to guide her. She craves an ambitious man who knows how to provide for her.
It is through submitting to a man you find worthy that you feel relief from responsibility. It is through submitting to a man you find worthy that you feel comfortable letting go of your control. It is through submitting to a man you find worthy that you feel safe to explore your deepest and most natural desires. What could be more natural than guiding a woman who craves guidance?
It is through this dynamic than you can feel safe enough to let go, vulnerable enough to let loose and comfortable enough to share what you truly desire. Maybe you desire tenderness. Maybe you desire softness. Maybe you desire love-making. Or maybe you have deeper desires, darker desires...
It has been my experience as a dominant partner over the years that women have 4 core needs. Those core needs shape who she is as a submissive woman. It is through understanding and satisfying those 4 needs that you can claim a woman and make her yours.
1- The need to feel safe
A woman walks through life with a deep fear inside her. A physical fear and an emotional fear. She craves physical safety and she craves emotional safety. It is when a woman feels safe that she is able to tap into her femininity, her softness, her vulnerability and her desire. A strong man, a masculine man, a confident man is attractive to a woman because she feels safe by his side, she feels safe in his arms and she feels safe being with him. It is through this feeling of safety that she feels comfortable being open, vulnerable and sensual.
2- The need to be led
A woman like you craves leadership. You crave a man you feel comfortable with. You crave a man you can feel vulnerable with. You crave no responsibility. Only by being with a man whose leadership you trust can you let go of the burden of decision making and turn your brain off. You get to let go of all your inhibitions and reveal your vulnerability. When you feel safe, vulnerable and soft you are able to embrace your femininity and with it your raw natural sexuality comes alive. It is by following the man you choose as your leader that you fulfill your deepest needs as a woman. A woman like you craves careful guidance. It is through that guidance that you are able to achieve deeper connection and better intimacy.
3- The need to be loved
You desire tenderness and gentleness, you desire to be seen and acknowledged. You yearn for affection. You yearn for connection. You yearn for that spark. You yearn for the butterflies in your stomach. You yearn for the soft touch of your man. You yearns to be made love to. You yearn to feel loved. You needs it. You needs all of it. Without love, without affection and without care a woman like you feels taken advantage of and used.
4- The need to be fucked
As a woman you are both the person and the female. With the female you have a be claimed. You have deep need to be fucked. You need to be mounted. You need to be dominated. You need to feel ravaged and taken. You need to feel like your body belongs to your male. You need to feel used. You need to feel like your body is being used for it's purpose. Pleasure. This is not a want. This is a need. It is an undeniable need. It is that need that makes you desire to be your man's slut. This need makes you choose to belong to him.
So I ask you, do you want to be claimed or do you need to be claimed?
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To clarify, this post is about having a conversation about this type of dynamic. A dominant and submissive type of dynamic. Kinks and all the other curiosities to be discussed in private. Feel free to check out my other posts for this conversation.
About you: Kindly tell me a little about yourself (Age, rough location, first name and a brief description of what you liked about my post). I prefer a good introduction and some details about yourself and your interest in discussing this dynamic.