u/Calming_Focus

You’ve been scrolling. Somehow, you’ve found yourself here.

This post might seem mundane; but it’s good for you to take a simple moment for yourself to reflect. Let’s take just one minute to focus on how you got here.

Maybe you’ve genuinely stumbled upon this side of Reddit for the first time. Perhaps you’ve felt drawn to the nature of these conversations that challenge your preconceived notions.

That’s a healthy perspective to have. It’s good to converse, and be made to fully question your worldview. In some ways, it may strengthen your beliefs with a stronger sense of why you believe what you do. Or, perhaps you’ll learn something new about yourself.

Let’s keep this very simple for you. If you’re looming for an honest, even tempered conversation; all you have to do is to follow the impulse to respond. Simply send me a chat request, tell me your age, gender, and how your day is going. Simple, isn’t it?

Simply allow yourself to do that now. You’ll be interested to see where this simple chat takes us.

As the weather gets warmer, it is natural for all of us to shed some layers and enjoy the sunshine.

And it’s this time aware when you feel it; that subtle heightened awareness of how your body is perceived; what particular cut of fabric frames your physique well, what colors complement you well… This subconscious framing serves 2 purposes: It brings you comfort and confidence in feeling good in your own skin; while also being aware of how you’re presenting yourself to those around you.

There is such a negative slant to the idea of having men observe you for how you choose to present yourself, that I would love to take this opportunity to reframe that dynamic. Of course, there’s negative associations due to any perceived danger, and that is perfectly understandable. But if we put that to the side; let’s analyze the attention for what it is. Imagine the eyes of others drawn to you from a safe distance.

Take the moment to genuinely check in with yourself. In a neural setting, when you feel that attention drawn to your physique, how do you genuinely, subconsciously feel yourself respond?

• Perhaps notice yourself drawn to the subtle attention drawn to you. It feels warm, intentional, as though it feels like a compliment.

• Or maybe your genuine response is to freeze once you’re aware of this attention. It cause you to stop in place, feeling as though you’ve been put on the spot; and are unsure of how you are supposed to respond.

• Maybe being perceived in this manner truly does make you actually uncomfortable. You feel on edge, or it makes you draw away from the source of the attention… That is a valid response as well! I’m curious to dive deeper into what that discomfort is genuinely rooted in.

Regardless of which response you genuinely feel in your day to day life, let’s chat about it! You know you’ve felt something react within you in response to this awareness of being on display. Whether you’re looking to dismantle this type of framing, are drawn to it, or are genuinely unsure of how to feel; take this opportunity to allow yourself to reach out in a message. I’d appreciate if you began by telling me your age, and which of these responses feels the more genuine to how you’ve typically felt in your day to day life…

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Kinks: Mentoring, giving subtle tasks, daily rituals, coercion, daily rituals, guided self awareness, iq play, hypno, bimbofication, edging, denial, a good conversation…

Limits: blood, scat

As the weather gets warmer, it is natural for all of us to shed some layers and enjoy the sunshine.

And it’s this time aware when you feel it; that subtle heightened awareness of how your body is perceived… what particular cut of fabric frames your physique well, what colors complement you well… This subconscious framing serves 2 purposes: It brings you comfort and confidence in feeling good in your own skin; while also being aware of how you’re presenting yourself to those around you.

There is such a negative slant to the idea of having men observe you for how you choose to present yourself, that I would love to take this opportunity to reframe that dynamic. Of course, there’s negative associations due to any perceived danger, and that is perfectly understandable. But if we put that to the side; let’s analyze the attention for what it is. Imagine the eyes of others drawn to you from a safe distance.

Take the moment to genuinely check in with yourself. In a neural setting, when you feel that attention drawn to your physique, how do you genuinely, subconsciously feel yourself respond?

• Perhaps notice yourself drawn to the subtle attention drawn to you. It feels warm, intentional, as though it feels like a compliment.

• Or maybe your genuine response is to freeze once you’re aware of this attention. It cause a freeze; feeling as though you’ve been put on the spot; and are unsure of how you are supposed to respond.

• Maybe being perceived in this manner truly does make you actually uncomfortable. You feel on edge, or it makes you draw away from the source of the attention… That is a valid response as well! I’m curious to dive deeper into what that discomfort is genuinely rooted in.

Regardless of which response it is, let’s have a chat about it! You know you’ve felt something react within you in response to this awareness of being on display. Whether you’re looking to dismantle this type of framing, are drawn to it, or are genuinely unsure of how to feel; take this opportunity to allow yourself to reach out in a message. I’d appreciate if you began by telling me your age, and which of these responses feels the more genuine to how you’ve typically felt in your day to day life…

***

Kinks: Mentoring, giving subtle tasks, daily rituals, coercion, daily rituals, guided self awareness, iq play, hypno, bimbofication, edging, denial, a good conversation…

Limits: blood, scat

As the weather gets warmer, it is natural for all of us to shed some layers and enjoy the sunshine.

And it’s this time aware when you feel it; that subtle heightened awareness of how your body is perceived; what particular cut of fabric frames your physique well, what colors complement you well… This subconscious framing serves 2 purposes: It brings you comfort and confidence in feeling good in your own skin; while also being aware of how you’re presenting yourself to those around you.

There is such a negative slant to the idea of having men observe you for how you choose to present yourself, that I would love to take this opportunity to reframe that dynamic. Of course, there’s negative associations due to any perceived danger, and that is perfectly understandable. But if we put that to the side; let’s analyze the attention for what it is. Imagine the eyes of others drawn to you from a safe distance.

Take the moment to genuinely check in with yourself. In a neural setting, when you feel that attention drawn to your physique, how do you genuinely, subconsciously feel yourself respond?

• Perhaps notice yourself drawn to the subtle attention drawn to you. It feels warm, intentional, as though it feels like a compliment.

• Or maybe your genuine response is to freeze once you’re aware of this attention. It cause a freeze, feeling as though you’ve been put on the spot; and are unsure of how you are supposed to respond.

• Maybe being perceived in this manner truly does make you actually uncomfortable. You feel on edge, or it makes you draw away from the source of the attention… That is a valid response as well! I’m curious to dive deeper into what that discomfort is genuinely rooted in.

Regardless of which response it is, let’s have a chat about it! You know you’ve felt something react within you in response to this awareness of being on display. Whether you’re looking to dismantle this type of framing, are drawn to it, or are genuinely unsure of how to feel; take this opportunity to allow yourself to reach out in a message. I’d appreciate if you began by telling me your age, and which of these responses feels the more genuine to how you’ve typically felt in your day to day life…

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Kinks: Mentoring, giving subtle tasks, daily rituals, coercion, daily rituals, guided self awareness, iq play, hypno, bimbofication, edging, denial, a good conversation…

Limits: blood, scat