This Massage got me thinking ??
So today I (M36) went for a 90-minute deep tissue massage at a place I hadn’t been to before. The business wasn’t some shady massage parlour — it was a proper spa/massage place.
I got into the massage room, stripped down to my underwear as normal, and got on the table.
A young Asian woman, probably mid-20s to early-30s, came in and started working on my back. She pulled down the back of my briefs slightly and tucked the towel into them. I’d say about half of my ass was exposed at that point.
At first, the massage was hard and deep, exactly what you’d expect from a deep tissue massage, and I was really enjoying it. But at some point within the first 20 minutes, the massage style changed completely into more of a slow, soft, relaxation-style massage using long strokes from my lower back/glutes all the way up to my neck.
She spent a lot of time around my glutes, which was fine because they were very sore, but the pressure definitely wasn’t deep enough anymore to really work out the knots.
After finishing with my back, she moved on to uncover one of my legs. She exposed the whole leg and also adjusted my underwear in a way that pushed the fabric into my ass crack a bit.
This is where things started to feel unusual.
For context, I was wearing loose-fitting men’s briefs.
While she was moving my underwear around, my balls slipped out the bottom. I immediately tensed up because I thought maybe I’d done something wrong, but she didn’t react at all and just continued the massage like nothing had happened. At that point I thought maybe it’s just something that occasionally happens and isn’t a big deal.
As she worked on my legs, she kept massaging very high up the inner thigh area, spending a lot of time extremely close to my balls — basically as close as she could get without actually touching them. I started getting turned on at this point because I knew she likely couldn’t avoid noticing the situation, and it felt like she was constantly right on the edge of touching them.
She was also using hot stones on my legs. She’d use a stone and then tuck it up under my underwear while she continued working on my legs — remember this part.
When she moved to the other leg, she adjusted my underwear the same way again, which exposed me almost identically to before. Again, she worked very slowly around the upper inner thigh/groin area without directly touching anything.
By this stage I was semi-erect and trying hard to keep it under control, knowing I’d eventually have to turn over.
When I turned onto my back, she covered me with the towel as normal. She started on my chest, only uncovering the upper half, but while massaging she would slide her hand under the towel and down toward my underwear line — not past it, but close enough that it actually tickled a little.
After the chest, she moved back to my legs. She used the heated stones first to warm them up, but this time when she finished with one of the stones she placed it right next to my semi-hard penis.
She then started working my legs again, and because of the way she was pulling and stretching them, my legs naturally spread apart. That again exposed my balls, and I could feel the cool air on them.
She continued working slowly all the way up into that area, and at one point she just held her hands there for maybe 10–20 seconds without moving.
Then, when she went to grab the hot stone again, she grabbed both the stone and my penis at the same time, then slowly pulled the stone away without saying anything. At that point I was almost fully erect just from the contact.
She spent a few more minutes on that leg before moving to the other side.
The same thing happened again with my legs spreading apart, to the point where I was basically spread eagle with everything fully exposed. Part of me was embarrassed, but another part of me found it pretty hot knowing she could clearly see everything.
This time, when she finished with the stone, she tucked it under the towel onto my lower stomach, which honestly made me wonder why she’d even put it there in the first place.
As she worked around my groin and upper thighs with slow movements, I was trying to stay still while also obviously getting aroused.
Then, when she reached for the stone again, she put her hand under the towel directly onto my penis a second time, slowly sliding upward until she reached the stone and removed it.
After that she finished with a head massage, said the session was over, and left the room while I just lay there wondering what exactly had happened the entire time.
So I have a few questions for anyone in the massage industry, or people who get massages regularly:
Why would a massage go from 20–30 minutes of actual deep tissue work into an hour of slow relaxation-style massage?
Was I in the wrong for not wearing tighter or more appropriate underwear?
What do you think her intention was?
Surely you don’t accidentally touch someone’s penis twice and work that closely around exposed genitals without realising it? Haha