It won't let me put afab in the title unfortunately
Ive been effectively single for close to 2 years now. A few people here and there. But ive mainly been working on myself. In those 2 years, I've dropped a 130 pounds, started going to the gym, traded in my self employment for a corporate marketing job and gotten more tattoos and piercings than I saw coming lol.
Now in the next 45 days, I plan on getting a motorcycle again, and hopefully, finding a partner that makes everything else come together.
A thing or two to note before we get in to the real post.
I cannot have kids, if you think ice/trump is doing a good job dont even bother lol, and I am strictly monogamous
Now lets get to it.
Now when it comes to kink I am kind of all over the place. The main thing that I truly love is making sure my partner has the best experience possible. Hard kinks, soft kinks it doesnt really matter. I definitely love the harder stuff more, but when it comes down to it it doesn't really matter. Ive been anywhere from freeuse cnc and bruises that stay. To nothing but praise and ddlg. I truly just love kink. With that being said I am a dom.
Ive been told I radiate daddy energy. But with that being said kink isnt really an on off thing for me. I am honestly just overwhelming nurturing and typically fall into a caretaker role for my partner. I do well in 24/7 situations because of that. For example. Even if we are in a store or walking around. My hand is probably going to be on you keeping you close to me. Whether thats in your hair or on the nape of your neck. I am also just protective of my partner. Ive had issues in the past where a family member (mine or theirs) will make a slight against them and I say something.
Im honestly pretty laid back in general, and prefer to joke around and such more than not. But I have no issue locking in and being serious.
My main love language is quality time, I lvoe spending time with my partner. Even if we are just on call while we do our own thing. Or we are actively watching something or playing a game.
I am big into watching anime or playing games with my partner. And it would be very preferable if youre on pc just for the options that are there for that. Im currently in my league era. But I have a background in fps games, mostly hero shooters.
Something that truly truly truly matters to me is communication. I need to know what's going through your head. If something has upset you? Talk to me about it. If youre having a great day or have awesome news? Tell me and ill be your hype man. I totally get talking about stuff is hard. But it makes everything go so much smoother.
I honestly lean towards more alt people. But thats a soft preference. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter what their appearance is like if we aren't a good match personality wise.
And finally. I typically take this stuff slow. Because I want to know you and understand you. And enjoy you before kink comes in the mix.
So to summarize im looking for an afab person who enjoys games, preferably has a pc, enjoys watching shows, probably no older than about 37, into motorcycles is definitely a plus, and is into kink preferably leaning towards harder kinks.
But if you reach out, just tell me about yourself. Who you are, and what about the post you fall into.