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[M4FB/TF] Do you want to be owned by a man, or do you want a man to make you feel owned?
There is a difference, you know.
One is about access. About smoothing away every bit of friction between a man and sex. A short, easy story where the plot bends itself into position and calls it dominance.
The other is different.
It is the slow, stomach-tightening realization that choice was never quite the point. You could walk away. You could close the door, roll your eyes, pretend you are above it, and never let him get his hands on you.
But some quiet, shameful part of you does not want to.
That is what I am looking for.
Not easy sex. Not empty commands. Not a man playing dominant because the script handed him a willing little body.
I want a femboy with something to yield. Pride. Resistance. Shame. Desire. A sharp tongue. A nervous blush. A desperate need to be wanted, corrected, praised, degraded, bent, held down, and made to understand exactly where he belongs.
I am not looking for a passive doll who collapses the second my character looks at him. I want the moment before surrender to matter. The hesitation. The denial. The breath catching in your throat when you realize he knows exactly what you want, and worse, he knows how badly you need him to take it from you.
Pairing: Dominant Male x Submissive Femboy
All characters and writers must be 18+. No exceptions.
I am looking to write the dominant/top role opposite a soft, feminine, submissive male character. Femboys are the focus here. Crossdressing, feminization, emasculation, humiliation, softness, prettiness, and being made to feel like the lesser man are all very much on the table.
That distinction matters to me. I am not looking to turn your character into a woman. The contrast is the point. A boy can be soft, pretty, delicate, submissive, and utterly beneath a man without ceasing to be male. In fact, that is where the humiliation has teeth.
Kinks / Dynamic:
I write toward chemistry first, but I am not here to pretend this will be tame.
I enjoy ownership, dirty talk, praise, degradation, discipline, teasing, control, possessiveness, jealousy, spanking, firm correction, roughness, tenderness, domestic hierarchy, body worship, humiliation, feminization, forced prettiness, obedience, brat-taming, slow corruption, and the kind of pressure that makes a boy stop pretending he does not want to kneel.
I like a hard dom: firm, structured, possessive, and clear. Not pointlessly cruel. Not abusive for the sake of edge. But a man who knows how to take control of a room, a conversation, a body, and eventually a life. A man who can make a femboy feel small without making him feel worthless. Desired, diminished, protected, used, corrected, and claimed.
Sex should be filthy when the moment calls for it. Rough, messy, intimate, humiliating, possessive, or tender depending on the scene. But it should feel earned. I do not want kinks stapled onto cardboard characters. I want the kink to grow from who they are, what they want, what they fear, and what they cannot stop circling.
What I want from you:
I want a submissive character with an actual inner life.
Maybe he is proud and needs to be brought down.
Maybe he is shy and aching to be drawn out.
Maybe he is bratty because testing the line is the only way he knows how to ask for structure.
Maybe he is closeted, embarrassed, or ashamed of how badly he wants masculine attention.
Maybe he dresses up as a joke, a dare, a trap, or an act of spite, only to realize being seen that way feels far too good to laugh off.
What matters is that he wants the dominant man in front of him on some level, even if admitting it takes time.
I am not interested in straight-to-gay conversion where attraction has to be forced, bypassed, or magically installed. I am not interested in playing a sexual predator. Conflict, embarrassment, denial, pride, hesitation, and shame are all fine. Delicious, even. But desire needs to exist beneath the resistance. I want surrender, not a victim.
Writing style:
I prefer first person for immediacy: breath, thought, hesitation, want. I want to feel inside the character, not watch him from across the room.
No strict length requirement, but I need presence. Internal monologue, reaction, continuity, and emotional weight matter. If your reply can be skimmed in seconds and reveals nothing about your character, we probably will not connect.
I do not need perfection. I do need effort.
Limits:
No underage, age play, scat, piss, bathroom play, foul hygiene, gore, torture, snuff, vore, hyper, inflation, mpreg, animals, vomit, extreme cruelty, or chastity cages.
Plot:
I am open to building something together, but I am not coming in empty-handed. I enjoy class divides, roommate tension, forbidden attraction, mentor/protégé dynamics, rivals, enemies-to-lovers, corruption arcs, dark romance, protective possession, spoiled rich boys being humbled, soft femboys being shaped, and proud little things learning that surrender does not always feel like defeat.
A sample ideas(open to others):
College roommates. Your character cannot stand mine. He is confident, masculine, charming, and constantly bringing women home. You resent him. Maybe envy him. Maybe hate how easily he gets attention. Maybe hate even more how much attention you have been paying.
So you decide to set a trap.
You dress up as the kind of pretty little thing he seems to always falls for. Soft, cute, tempting, just feminine enough to bait him. You let him chase. Let him flirt. Let him think he is winning. The plan is simple: make him want you, then reveal the truth and watch his confidence shatter.
Except Logan does not react the way he was supposed to.
He is surprised, yes. But not disgusted. Not angry. Not afraid.
If anything, he looks more interested.
And suddenly the trap you set for him starts closing from the other side.
That is the kind of story I want. Not “roommates get horny.” Not proximity replacing chemistry. I want the psychological backfire. The confession hidden inside the trap. The moment your character realizes he was not just pretending to be wanted.
He wanted to be wanted.
If that sounds like something you can write, send me more than “hey.” Tell me what kind of submissive you like playing, what drew you in, your kinks and limits, and what kind of dynamic makes your stomach twist.
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The year is 1376, and Edward III remains on the English throne, though his failing health has left his son, the Black Prince, to govern a devastated England facing an uncertain future. The kingdom is still reeling from the aftermath of the Black Plague, a catastrophe that swept through Europe like a dark tide, leaving death and despair in its wake. Entire villages lie abandoned, fields overgrown, and the once-thriving towns now echo with the whispers of loss. Survivors cling to the Church’s promises of salvation, seeking solace in strict religious piety, even as the land itself seems to turn against them. Famine, disease, and war have become constant companions, and the people live in fear of the next calamity that may strike.
Under the Church’s unyielding doctrine, any deviation from their strict moral codes is seen as a threat to the fragile order holding society together. The act of sodomy is condemned as an abomination, an affront to God and nature, punishable by death for anyone found guilty of such a crime. It is a time when even a whispered accusation can lead to ruin, and where the watchful eyes of the Church spare no one.
Sir Logan de Montfort, a knight bound by duty and honor, hides a dangerous secret. Beneath his stoic exterior lies a truth that could see him disgraced, exiled, or even executed. He has resigned himself to a life of solitude, suppressing his desires to maintain the appearance of a loyal and Godly knight. But his world begins to unravel when he discovers that one of his maids—a seemingly meek and dutiful servant—is, in fact, a man. Frail and slight, the servant took on the role of a maid because his small frame left him unsuited for the grueling labor expected of commoners. The position, though dangerous, offered better prospects and a chance to escape the harsh realities of life outside the manor’s walls.
Bound together by their shared secrets, Sir Logan and the disguised servant are drawn into a forbidden affair, a dangerous bond that could spell their doom if ever exposed. In a land gripped by fear, where trust is a fragile luxury and betrayal hides in every shadow, the Church’s gaze is ever-watchful, ready to drag sinners into the light, strip them of name and station, and leave them to the mercy of courts, clergy, and mob alike. Their love is a precarious tightrope, where even the faintest whisper could become a death sentence, forcing them to navigate a world where one wrong move could lead to ruin. Yet, for a chance at true happiness, they are willing to risk it all.
Estne umquam amor tam purus quam amor viri erga alium virum?
(Is there ever a love so pure as the love a man has for another man?)
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Most people won't see this part, they will see my title and simply DM me.
Luckily you have read the ad, and you will know how to actually get my attention.
I am looking for a few things from my partner, but largely I am looking for an introduction. It doesn't have to be long or complex, simply something that tells me who you are and that you have more to offer than a hole.
If you are interested then feel free to contact me on discord on ChaosOpen or reach out here on reddit.