u/Chaotic_Corvus_Corax

Hey there,

I am a Dom/Daddy/Sadist (and rare switch) with 15 years of experience in the scene. I am looking for a deep connection, slow growth from a friendship full of banter building the trust for a caring D/s dynamic.

Potential red flags presented here so you can stop reading immediately:

• I am poly and in a loving relationship. Not looking for a new nesting partner, but open to develope into romatic affection.
• I am vegetarian, politically left leaning, occasional weed consumer, atheist
• I am neurospicy (ADD-Autism), generally well adjusted, but definitely not going to apologize for infodumping on you.
• I am looking for online only at least for the near future.

Kinks: Painplay, Orgasm control, humiliation, praise, DD/l, petplay, bondage, brat taming, primal play and cnc.

I prefer more playful, caring dynamics while still being rough during playsessions. Sweet affection as the base mood, darker aspects being more temporary. I am not into strictness 24/7, micromanaging or making you feel worthless. I want to see my sub grow through challenges and be happier and more stable overall.

My joy comes from getting inside your mind, learning wich buttons to press to get your knees weak. I want to treat you like my precious toy.

Hard limits are just scat and permanent harm, and I also only play with safewords, proper communication, and risk aware consent.

Everyday me: I am a really talkative nerdy guy. I work as a postdoc researcher, I read a lot, I write a little, I enjoy spending time in nature as much as possible. I'm introverted but not shy, just prefer fewer deep contacts over many shallow ones. I love animals, I play video- and boardgames, I have many random passion subjects that I can chew your ear off about. My brain is filled with random funfacts and useless trivia, and I generally enjoy talking about intellectual topics like math, physics, history, mythology, philosophy, biology, anthorpology and so many more. I have a humor that ranges from silly to sarcastic, wich kinds reflects my view of this world as an unfair place that I somehow manage to enjoy anyways.

Appearance wise I am 6'1, 170lb, curly brown hair, green eyes, short beard.

Looking for: A curious, open minded switch or submissive. I don't care a lot about age or experience level (just if you are a beginner I expect to take things slow and not dive in head over heels), and I don't have a strong preference about appearance except that I am not into super masculine men. Most importantly you have similar ideas about a slower pace of getting to know each other, becoming friends outside of kink as a first step, and a general idea that you might like my style of bdsm. Someone who is just as talkative and doesn't feel this post is too long to read entirely because I definitely expect to continue exactly like this.

Not looking for: I am not looking for people who have an unaware partner, I am not for immediate play (so please don't immediately use titles), and I don't plan to tell you what I would do to you right now until I know we are a match.

Would love to hear from you!