Where are the masculine looking subs?
Hey guys, I am a dom, who is new to the scene, i have been to some munches and play parties, and I always have fun in them.
So i am trying to find myself a sub that i want to keep long term, however I noticed a pattern that is confusing me, In all of the bdsm social events that i go to I am always physically attracted to the big masculine men and everytime I chat with one of them he is a dom, I noticed that the majority of the subs that I attract are feminine looking or just small in general and i am not into that ( m not saying there is anythig wrong with it, it is just not what i am looking for)
And it has been so annoying, and I tried to give chances to subs that i was not physically attracted to, bcs i didn’t want to be so pickyyy but i couldn’t bring myself to like them.
The only time i was attracted to a sub, i found out he was a dom later who doesn’t enjoy submission and he lied to have a chance withe me.
And also wtf is wrong with men doms who think they can make a dominatrix submit to them, I hate how a lot of them try to challenge me once they find out i am a domme, it always rubs me the wrong way.
Anyway The idea of dominating a man who is way bigger than me is much more appealipng to me, bcs then it feels like he is submiting because he wants to while he has the power to completely flip the scene on me.
Anyway I don’t know what kind of answers i am expecting from this post but i just wanted to get it off of my chest bcs my dating life started to bother me recently.
And i apologies for the grammar mistakes, english is not my first language.