So I was at drinks with a friend last weekend and she casually mentioned she wore a plug under her jeans to a date, and now my brain won’t let it go lol.
I’m late 20s, pretty new to anal stuff. I’ve only played with fingers and one tiny plug from a random “sex toys” bundle that’s… fine, but feels cheap and the base digs in if I sit too long. I’d love something I can wear around the house for an hour or two while working from home, maybe even on a grocery run once I’m comfortable.
I’ve been googling like crazy and keep seeing mixed opinions on silicone vs metal, tapered vs more bulb-y, etc. Found a sex toy shopping site with a bunch of butt plugs and cute vibrating cock rings and whatnot while researching, but the reviews are all over the place and I don’t really trust store reviews as much as you lot.
For people with beginner/medium experience: what shape/material worked best for you for longer wear? Any brands or specific plugs you swear by? Also how big is “too big” for a newbie who wants a stretch but doesn’t want to hate their life the next day?