Are younger 'SDs' becoming more desired? Accepted? Or just a numbers game?
Using one of my alt accounts for this query. No need to advertise my jealousy.
As long as I have been on and this sub the common theme is 'no' to younger SDs. Typically no one under 30 was the most common theme. And most SBs preferred SDs over 35 and or 40+ for sure. Is that changing due to the massive influx of new SBs?
The reason I ask is I was approached for some mentoring by a 'younger' SD. He would not tell me his age at first. I told him I needed to know, so, if I know or knew an SB that might be open to a referral I need to know his basics. Age, looks, job, and so on. Fast forward he tells me he is 25. I was like wow, that is young, but he seemed to know the game and how to interact with POTs.
He lives in an area I frequent, but have not been active in many many months. He volunteered some info on who to steer clear of and who was receptive to actual sugar dates. I got back on Seeking at sent a bunch of dms to see what I could find. He asked me to send my list of POTs. So I did. He had info on a few of them. And what surprised me the most was he was getting replies and phone numbers instantly. While these same POTs were leaving me on read, not replying at all. Let alone with numbers. NGL I am a bit jealous. Some of the POTs were 30+ most were around his age mid 20s. He also sent me a pic of himself. While he is not ugly, he just looks like a plain person. I showed his pic to one of my friend SBs. She said he looked bit odd. To each their own on looks. My point is he is not Chris Hemsworth looking.
Back to my question: are there just so many SBs or wannabe SBs now that they are fine with younger SDs? Or are they more receptive to younger SDs since they are closer in age? Or is it just a numbers game and those odds are playing out?
Not saying you have to date older men to be an SB. Just curious as now they seem to more and more men in their 20s sugaring.
Food for thought.
Edit add: he has sent me screenshots of convos on Seeking. Also some screen shots of their texts. So, yes the texts could be fake, but the screenshots on seeking appear to be real. But yes, taking all with a grain of salt.