u/Chicagoan2023

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’m looking to connect with one White female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message to me.

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, Black, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there.

I’m looking to connect with one White female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message to me.

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message.

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, Black, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there.

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message.

I’m looking to connect with one White female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there. I’m 100% real. Put your favorite color in your first message to me.

I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, graduate degree, works in a fully remote corporate job. I’m old school in terms of dating as I love to court and lead. I provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for a woman that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities. I’m open to all body types except BBW.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

This year I’ve really been craving something more than a vanilla relationship. I want a connection with someone that has vanilla but layers in elements of BDSM into it. I love going on fun dates and look like a (mostly) normal vanilla couple in public but in private very different. Instead of lurking decided to make a post.

About me: 6’2”, single, no kids, works in a corporate job. Old school in terms of dating (I love to court and lead). I always provide a space/environment for a woman to be truly feminine. My goal is to provide an environment for someone that urges them to be submissive. This takes time and doesn’t happen overnight.

Kinks (developing list): Orgasm Control, Free Use, Spanking Sessions, Outfit Control, creampies.

I’m never going to be into: Scat, blood, needles.

Looking for: A woman that wants a great mix of a vanilla and BDSM relationship, lives in Chicago/Midwest (but ok with US based as long as you’re willing to meet in person, loves having intellectual conversations, flirty, enjoys a wide variety of dates and activities.

Bonus points if you’re: 5’4” or shorter, have multiple tats, wears glasses, piercings, long hair, and a different ethnicity than mine (just a preference at this current time).

If you made it this far please send a detailed message about what caught your eye in my post and what specifically you’re looking for. Please don’t just message “hi” or “hey”.

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, Black, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there.

I’m looking to connect with one female for a no drama and consistent FWB. Obviously this will be centered around our physical interactions but would also like to be good friends and hang out outside the bedroom from time to time. I can host, 6’2”, Black, grad degree, flexible schedule.

Huge plus if you’re a sports fan, 5’4” or shorter, have tats, kink friendly, and/or wears glasses.

Send me a detailed message about you and we can take it from there.