u/ChillThaBeans

Well my first post here

Hey everyone, a little about me, I’m 30 turning 31 soon, 5’8”, dark hair, short beard, dark eyes, white/tan, Speak English and Spanish fluently and currently learning Portuguese.

My job involves a lot of driving around so I’m pretty available to chat on most days, and I just miss being attentive for someone. I’m not shy just introverted but once we click, I can talk and talk about any and all things, I love taking interests in new ideas and love learning random topics! Major sweet tooth for pastries and I can’t survive without my morning Iced Coffee regardless of how close to zero it is outside. Hypothermia? She doesn’t live here. But a French Cruller and a Medium Iced Coffee do!

I’m in a long term relationship, but we’ve drifted into after years of false promises, overstep of boundaries and trust, along with “jokes” that didn’t help. I’ve lost all emotional connection and now just here for my daughter.

But I miss and want to feel that spark in life again with lots of laughter and someone I can look forward to hearing from every day. I love listening to people so please I’m all ears! We can celebrate each other’s accomplishments or laugh at each others stupid moments or just decompress after a long stressful day.

What I’m looking for: Someone around my age, 28-33, preferably around the Boston, MA area but I’m open to long distance, maybe you are in a similar situation, maybe your a little weird, you have some things you’re passionate about and want to share it with someone.
And for sure I would like to take it slow.

I am NOT looking to just jump in bed with any random person and please do not ask me to subscribe to anything, the gas station already empty’s my wallet.

My situation will stay the same and I’m not looking to change yours, I’m not here to trauma dump or anything, just want to bring some joy to these long monotonous days. If you feel this is you, don’t hesitate to send me a message.

Well my first post here

Hey everyone, a little about me, I’m 30 turning 31 soon, 5’8”, dark hair, short beard, dark eyes, white/tan, Speak English and Spanish fluently and currently learning Portuguese.

My job involves a lot of driving around so I’m pretty available to chat on most days, and I just miss being attentive for someone. I’m not shy just introverted but once we click, I can talk and talk about any and all things, I love taking interests in new ideas and love learning random topics! Major sweet tooth for pastries and I can’t survive without my morning Iced Coffee regardless of how close to zero it is outside. Hypothermia? She doesn’t live here. But a French Cruller and a Medium Iced Coffee do!

I’m in a long term relationship, but we’ve drifted into after years of false promises, overstep of boundaries and trust, along with “jokes” that didn’t help. I’ve lost all emotional connection and now just here for my daughter.

But I miss and want to feel that spark in life again with lots of laughter and someone I can look forward to hearing from every day. I love listening to people so please I’m all ears! We can celebrate each other’s accomplishments or laugh at each others stupid moments or just decompress after a long stressful day.

What I’m looking for: Someone around my age, 28-33, preferably around the Boston, MA area but I’m open to long distance, maybe you are in a similar situation, maybe your a little weird, you have some things you’re passionate about and want to share it with someone.
And for sure I would like to take it slow.

I am NOT looking to just jump in bed with any random person and please do not ask me to subscribe to anything, the gas station already empty’s my wallet.

My situation will stay the same and I’m not looking to change yours, I’m not here to trauma dump or anything, just want to bring some joy to these long monotonous days. If you feel this is you, don’t hesitate to send me a message.