Reminder that you don't have to be a dom or be a brat to be proactive! It's as simple as sharing your fantasies and ideas, even if they sound silly! You shouldn't leave the entire creative process to your dom and you shouldn't bottle up your fantasies and ideas either!

It's ok to say stuff like "Maybe we could do this" or "maybe you should do this more in the future", feedback is how you build up to your ideal dynamic, and the more feedback and suggestions you give and talk through about, I guarantee the better your play sessions will be in the future.

So remember! Be proactive! Don't leave it all up to your dom, your input is valuable too! (Unless of course discussed otherwise with your dom, then carry on)

I want to start by stating that while I am ok with a good sub/dom dynamic, I hope to eventually develop it into something more. I want to get to know you personally and emotionally!

About me

Now, for an introduction about myself! I'm 27, portuguese, bi, chubby, and I have some very cute curls (you can check them on my profile :3)! I love hanging out with friends and doing stuff together but am a bit sparing on going out as I can be somewhat socially anxious.

As for hobbies I love playing games, reading, and watching shows/movies/documentaries. I like to be informed in all matter of subjects even if some of them are silly.

When it comes to me as a sub, I am very submissive (shocker) and will always make my main goal your comfort. But I do want to be proactive sometimes, I think it's just as interesting as a sub to take the initiative, be it with initiating scenarios or suggesting them, even just preparing things for the fun of it!

If I had to point out one of my strongest qualities I'd say it's how good my moans and whimpers sound (there's a pinned audio on my profile) and how I always try to put my partners pleasure first.

What I'm looking for

I am looking for a genuine emotional connection, I do not want you to be a kink dispenser! Submitting is amazing but it's just not fun without any emotion behind it

I'm usually ok with long distance stuff, and I don't mind if we're a few hours apart in terms of timezone, but I really wanna emphasize the "Europe/Portugal" part of the ad, as I've been in several long distance dynamics before, and it's hard to make it work when timezones don't match too well. If you're portuguese or live here that would be the best, but around central Europe is fine too!

While I'm ok with a dynamic forming quickly, I do want to have some emotional investment, and I'd like to get to know you personally as we go.

On the physical side, I prefer taller and chubbier women but no size is discouraged, a short dom can always pull down on the leash until you're at her level. So please don't feel discouraged to message!

Kinks/Fetishes

There's a bit of a list of what I enjoy, but I'll list those I am more familiar with:

Important: Edging, Bondage, Pegging

Good but not essential: Role Reversal, Spanking, JOI

There is definitely a lot I haven't mentioned, but feel free to ask and maybe help me discover something new!

Closing Thoughts

At the end of the day I'm looking for a dynamic where I can bond and have fun with my partner, along with a big side of submission. I want to compliment and be complimented, I want to cuddle, I want to have long conversations, I wanna be there for you when you need me, and I wanna just do dumb stuff together and laugh at silly jokes.

But I do want to serve you, I want to be called a good boy, I want to be collared, I want to be leashed and I want to make you the happiest dom ever! And you, what do you want?

PS: Please do not open your message with any titles, if you do I'm ignoring you as you have clearly not read the post! I am also not looking for sellers so please do not message if you are one!