u/Chubbygut123

As the title states in curious how many of you have or experienced long term, happy, committed, relationships/marriages having this kink but with someone whom maybe doesn’t participate or have interests in this kink? I have gone most my life struggling with balancing this kink along with finding women who also have other characteristics I find attractive and make them a good partner. While this kink has never been front and center, it has caused its fair share of internal issues especially sexually. For those who have found happiness and love outside this kink how do u maintain balance and fulfillment?

Curious how many of you come from the former fit/athlete or just a great metabolism crowd. If u were what ended up being your downfall and bringing u here to this point? Was it aging, pregnancy, lifestyle, employment or just intentional? It’s interesting to see how people end up here with some being a life long interest or other something they accidentally stumble upon. Personally, I have always had a fetish for heavier women of varying sizes but I had always been an athlete with an appetite and a metabolism to match. Even through college my weight didn’t stray far from my usual 6’0 175. After college though things changed, I actually had money to buy the foods i wanted and the my new job was incredibly sedentary. For the first 6 month I was so busy enjoying my new financial freedom and stressing out about my job that I barely noticed that I had packed on 10 lbs in 6 months. After stepping on the scale and seeing that 186 blink back at my I was shocked it was the heaviest I’d ever been. After that I realized maybe I am the type of person who can gain weight and slow but surely I set weight gain goal, 190 led to 200, 210, to my highest weight of 225. I don’t know if by this groups standards I was fat but definitely chubby and out of shape. Sadly, due to some lifestyle and circumstantial stuff 225 wasn’t sustainable and I currently vary between 200-210. Would love to hear how u all got here and where ur at now!