It’s become difficult to maintain a positive outlook or motivation when it comes to my kink life and desire to become someone’s submissive. Terrible experiences in failed dynamics, ghosting, misaligned chemistry have all become so commonplace both in the general kink community and in my own life. So much so that I’ve started believing I’m not the right fit for anyone, and I’m better off just immersing myself in the community without actively participating.
Soooo, in order for me to keep out of that thought process, I’ve come onto this subreddit seeking stories from subs who have struck gold in their dynamics. How did you meet your kinky counterpart? What was the flow of connection, did you guys feel a spark of chemistry right away? How long have you and your Dominant been seeing each other? Even your best memories with them.
It helps to see that things ARE achievable, when the public community is so small (where I am, at least), and the platforms online are all diluted with false information, fake Doms, and dead ends.
Much appreciated 🙃