Hello!
I'm a cis man and enjoy feminization but it's been tricky to navigate with my girlfriend. She identifies as submissive, and I identify as dominant. I see feminization as empowering, and have never identified with the idea of forced-feminization or sissification. My aim is to feel as feminine as possible, and essentially play that role as throughly as I can. And to feel powerfully sexual. For example, I want for her to make me look as beautiful as possible, not just "a man turned into a woman", if that makes sense. In no way do I want this to imply that women are subservient, or weaker. It's the opposite, in fact...I want this to be more about how powerful we both find women.
My gf is super supportive, but doesn't feel comfortable with the gender dynamics of it. As she is a sub, I'm wondering if there's a way for me to articulate Dom dynamics while occupying a female role? I really want to find a middle ground here, and make her feel comfortable, enjoy it, and still explore this with me. And she's generally very kinky, so this isn't a prudish thing.
I hope that makes sense. Thanks all, any insight is very welcome!