For context, I recently revealed to my husband that me and my college roommate had masturbated together many times during college. It wasn’t something that we planned to do, just kind of started one night when we got drunk together. We were in a dorm, and our beds were literally like 3 feet apart. We had no privacy at all. And after it happened the first time, it was easier to just continue doing it together than trying to hid it from each other. We never touched each other sexually. We just did our own thing, in our own beds. But, our beds were basically right next to each other.
Every since I told him about it, he has been dropping hints about how he would love to watch the two of us masturbating together. Me and her are still best friends, so setting something like that up is possible, providing she is willing.
I’m just not sure how I feel about it. Part of me thinks it would fun to do that with her again. But another part of me doesn’t really want my husband to watch her masturbating. Not to mention, he would probably end up masturbating while he watched. And I’m not sure I want my friend seeing that either.
Has anyone done anything like this before? If so, what was your experience during and after? Did it affect your relationship?