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My girlfriend (28) and I (29) have been together for 8 years and for the last 2 years she’s had a permanent hall pass from me to explore with whomever she feels like. Since then she’s had 4 experiences

Couples either as a duo or taken men/women who haven’t been been able to bring it up with their partner and are curious about this lifestyle, happy to answer any questions

FYI: I’m not a cuck, have an extremely high libido, and my girlfriend and I have our hottest sex with each other. Us practising hotwifing is because it turns both her and me on. We (I) have other reasons too, comment below if you wanna know more. Also, I cannot emphasise this enough “bulls” and singles please don’t reach out to me thinking I’m trying to find someone here, that’s not how we work. Cheers :)

Nothing is a bigger turn on than being high and watching your girlfriend get fucked in front of you

Unleashing her inner slut and exploring her sexuality with someone outside of us and just being her raw unabashed self

FYI: I’m not a cuck, have an extremely high libido, and my girlfriend and I have our hottest sex with each other. Us practising hotwifing is because it turns both her and me on. We (I) have other reasons too, comment below if you wanna know more. Also, I cannot emphasise this enough “bulls” and singles please don’t reach out to me thinking I’m trying to find someone here, that’s not how we work. Cheers :)

Nothing is a bigger turn on than being high and watching your girlfriend get fucked in front of you

Unleashing her inner slut and exploring her sexuality with someone outside of us and just being her raw unabashed self

FYI: I’m not a cuck, have an extremely high libido, and my girlfriend and I have our hottest sex with each other. Us practising hotwifing is because it turns both her and me on. We (I) have other reasons too, comment below if you wanna know more

Nothing is a bigger turn on than being high and watching your girlfriend get fucked in front of you

Unleashing her inner slut and exploring her sexuality with someone outside of us and just being her raw unabashed self

FYI: I’m not a cuck, have an extremely high libido, and my girlfriend and I have our hottest sex with each other. Us practising hotwifing is because it turns both her and me on. We (I) have other reasons too, comment below if you wanna know more

Nothing is a bigger turn on than being high and watching your girlfriend get fucked in front of you

Unleashing her inner slut and exploring her sexuality with someone outside of us and just being her raw unabashed self

FYI: I’m not a cuck, have an extremely high libido, and my girlfriend and I have our hottest sex with each other. Us practising hotwifing is because it turns both her and me on. We (I) have other reasons too, comment below if you wanna know more

Is it strange that I don’t like to participate or even watch? I mean I get the exhilaration of voyeurism and I’d be down to explore it with a different couple entirely

But when it comes to my girlfriend I don’t want to participate, watch, or even know about it beforehand. I like to hear about it after, especially cause it leads to sex and the story continues there

We don’t even like to plan our dates, I’ve just given my girlfriend a permanent hall pass to fuck whoever she wants whenever she wants. After years of fantasising about this our first experience went exactly like that, and we’ve only had one more after that

Would love to hear more from others especially vixens

Is it strange that I don’t like to participate or even watch? I mean I get the exhilaration of voyeurism and I’d be down to explore it with a different couple entirely

But when it comes to my girlfriend I don’t want to participate, watch, or even know about it beforehand. I like to hear about it after, especially cause it leads to sex and the story continues there

We don’t even like to plan our dates, I’ve just given my girlfriend a permanent hall pass to fuck whoever she wants whenever she wants. After years of fantasising about this our first experience went exactly like that, and we’ve only had one more after that

Would love to hear more from others if you can relate! From both the stag and the vixen’s perspective!

NOT VERIFIED

Okay just writing this out there cause a lot of people have reached out to me asking about the stag/vixen dynamic, how it’s different from cuckolding, and why for me personally hotwifing is an honestly hotter kink dynamic for certain couples.

First off people constantly confuse stag/vixen with cukolding and they really aren’t the same thing at all.

Cukolding, from what I’ve seen, usually involves h u m i l i a t i n g and d e g r a d i n g fantasies. The turn on for a lot of people in that dynamic comes from feeling lesser and jealous, and sometimes emotionally less desired in some way. Nothing wrong with that if it works for someone, but that’s just never been my thing personally.

The stag/vixen dynamic feels completely different to me because it comes from confidence and security. I am a very secure person so I know that my girlfriend will always be with me no matter how many other partners she has. I know what we have is solid. There’s no competition in my head. I can separate the sex from the love.

As a stag, I don’t fantasize about being “less than” another man. I don’t want to be h u m i I i a t e d. In fact it’s the opposite — the idea that my partner finds other people attractive and has the full freedom to explore is extremely hot for me. Also as a side note, when she tells her girlfriends on a girls night out or girls trip that we have this level of openness and trust, and some of them wish they had that level of freedom in their own relationships, it honestly makes it even more exciting for me.

Hotwifing is exhilarating. And for me cukolding is not something I relate to at all.

Again, not judging anybody into cukolding before people get defensive in the comments lol. Everyone’s wired differently. But for me personally, I’m an extremely secure person in relationships and I genuinely love the idea of women being liberated instead of looked down upon for being sexual beings. As a society we’ve kinda been made to believe that it’s more okay for a man to have multiple partners than for a woman. I wanna challenge that, which is why I love the idea that my girlfriend has the freedom to explore sexually if she wants to. Plus I get the hottest sex of my life with my partner through this, so it’s a win win.

A lot of people outside the lifestyle think it means the relationship is broken, but honestly from what I’ve seen, i n s e c u r e couples usually can’t handle this dynamic at all. The couples who truly enjoy it communicate a lot and already have a strong level of trust.

Also, there are a lot of nuances to hotwifing as well. Some guys like to participate, some guys like to watch, some just wanna hear about it later after the fact. If anyone’s inquisitive, I’m here for those who are curious or are slowly exploring this lifestyle.

Also, just to clarify I’m not looking for a “b u l l” here. I don’t like that term and that’s not how we practice our kink. She chooses whoever she wants, I don’t get involved. We both prefer it that way.

So guys, if you’ve ever been curious about this lifestyle, definitely think deeply about it before dismissing it automatically. It can completely change how you look at trust, communication and sexuality in a relationship.

Women, if this kind of openness appeals to you, talk to your partners about it. Sometimes conversations people are scared to have can actually bring couples much closer together.

I can do a part two describing our first hotwife experience. Let me know in the comments.

(29M & 28F)

Okay just writing this out there cause a lot of people have reached out to me asking about the stag/vixen dynamic, how it’s different from cuckolding, and why for me personally hotwifing is an honestly hotter kink dynamic for certain couples.

First off people constantly confuse stag/vixen with cukolding and they really aren’t the same thing at all.

Cukolding, from what I’ve seen, usually involves h u m i l i a t i n g and d e g r a d i n g fantasies. The turn on for a lot of people in that dynamic comes from feeling lesser and jealous, and sometimes emotionally less desired in some way. Nothing wrong with that if it works for someone, but that’s just never been my thing personally.

The stag/vixen dynamic feels completely different to me because it comes from confidence and security. I am a very secure person so I know that my girlfriend will always be with me no matter how many other partners she has. I know what we have is solid. There’s no competition in my head. I can separate the sex from the love.

As a stag, I don’t fantasize about being “less than” another man. I don’t want to be h u m i I i a t e d. In fact it’s the opposite — the idea that my partner finds other people attractive and has the full freedom to explore is extremely hot for me. Also as a side note, when she tells her girlfriends on a girls night out or girls trip that we have this level of openness and trust, and some of them wish they had that level of freedom in their own relationships, it honestly makes it even more exciting for me.

Hotwifing is exhilarating. And for me cukolding is not something I relate to at all.

Again, not judging anybody into cukolding before people get defensive in the comments lol. Everyone’s wired differently. But for me personally, I’m an extremely secure person in relationships and I genuinely love the idea of women being liberated instead of looked down upon for being sexual beings. As a society we’ve kinda been made to believe that it’s more okay for a man to have multiple partners than for a woman. I wanna challenge that, which is why I love the idea that my girlfriend has the freedom to explore sexually if she wants to. Plus I get the hottest sex of my life with my partner through this, so it’s a win win.

A lot of people outside the lifestyle think it means the relationship is broken, but honestly from what I’ve seen, i n s e c u r e couples usually can’t handle this dynamic at all. The couples who truly enjoy it communicate a lot and already have a strong level of trust.

Also, there are a lot of nuances to hotwifing as well. Some guys like to participate, some guys like to watch, some just wanna hear about it later after the fact. If anyone’s inquisitive, I’m here for those who are curious or are slowly exploring this lifestyle.

Also, just to clarify I’m not looking for a “b u l l” here. I don’t like that term and that’s not how we practice our kink. She chooses whoever she wants, I don’t get involved. We both prefer it that way.

So guys, if you’ve ever been curious about this lifestyle, definitely think deeply about it before dismissing it automatically. It can completely change how you look at trust, communication and sexuality in a relationship.

Women, if this kind of openness appeals to you, talk to your partners about it. Sometimes conversations people are scared to have can actually bring couples much closer together.

I can do a part two describing our first hotwife experience. Let me know in the comments.

(29M & 28F)

Okay just writing this out there cause a lot of people have reached out to me asking about the stag/vixen dynamic, how it’s different from cuckolding, and why personally I think hotwifing is an honestly hotter kink dynamic for certain couples.

First off people constantly confuse stag/vixen with cuckolding and they really aren’t the same thing at all.

Cuckolding, from what I’ve seen, usually involves humiliation and degradation fantasies. The turn on for a lot of people in that dynamic comes from feeling inferior and jealous, and even unwanted some way. Nothing wrong with that if it works for someone, but that’s just never been my thing personally.

The stag/vixen dynamic feels completely different to me because it comes from confidence and security. I am a very secure person so I know that my girlfriend will always be with me no matter how many other partners she has. I know what we have is solid. There’s no competition in my head. I can separate the sex from the love.

As a stag, I don’t fantasize about being “less than” another man. I don’t want to be humiliated. In fact it’s the opposite, the idea that my partner finds other people attractive and has the full freedom to explore is extremely hot for me. Also as a side note - when she tells her girlfriends on a girls night out or on a girls trip that she’s allowed to do what she wants and her best friends get jealous knowing their guys are not as open, makes it even more fun for me.

Hotwifing is exhilarating. And for me Cuckolding often feels damaging.

Again, not judging anybody into cuckolding before people get defensive in the comments lol. Everyone’s wired differently. But for me personally, I’m an extremely secure person in relationships and I genuinely love the idea of our women being liberated instead of shamed for being sexual beings. As society we’ve kinda been made to believe that is more okay for a man to have multiple partners and not for a woman. I wanna change that, which is why I love the idea that my girlfriend has the freedom to sleep with whoever she wants, whenever she wants. Plus I get the hottest sex of my life with my partner through this, so it’s a win win.

A lot of people outside the lifestyle think it means the relationship is broken, but honestly from what I’ve seen, insecure couples usually can’t handle this dynamic at all. The couples who truly enjoy it, communicate a lot and have a lot of trust already.

Also, there are a lot of nuances to hotwifing as well. Some guys like to participate, some guys like to watch, some just wanna hear about it later after the fact. Happy to answer more for those who are curious or are dipping their toes in this lifestyle

Also, just to clarify I’m not hunting for a “bull” here. I don’t like that term and that’s not how we practice our kink. She chooses whoever she wants, I don’t get involved. We both prefer it that way

So boys, if you wanna try this lifestyle, definitely think about it. It’ll revolutionise your life.

Women, if you’re into this then please talk to your partners about it, it can lead to something very sexy. Let the matriarchy begin!

I can do a part two describing our first hotwife story. Let me know in the comments

(29M&28F)

Okay just writing this out there cause a lot of people have reached out to me asking about the stag/vixen dynamic, how it’s different from cuckolding, and why for me personally hotwifing is an honestly hotter kink dynamic for certain couples.

First off people constantly confuse stag/vixen with cuckolding and they really aren’t the same thing at all.

Cuckolding, from what I’ve seen, usually involves humiliation and degradation fantasies. The turn on for a lot of people in that dynamic comes from feeling inferior and jealous, and even unwanted some way. Nothing wrong with that if it works for someone, but that’s just never been my thing personally.

The stag/vixen dynamic feels completely different to me because it comes from confidence and security. I am a very secure person so I know that my girlfriend will always be with me no matter how many other partners she has. I know what we have is solid. There’s no competition in my head. I can separate the sex from the love.

As a stag, I don’t fantasize about being “less than” another man. I don’t want to be humiliated. In fact it’s the opposite, the idea that my partner is finds other people attractive and has the full freedom to explore is extremely hot for me. Also as a side note - when she tells her girlfriends on a girls night out or on a girls trip that she’s allowed to do what she wants and her best friends get jealous knowing their guys are not as open, makes it even more fun for me.

Hotwifing is exhilarating. And for me Cuckolding often feels self-destructive.

Again, not judging anybody into cuckolding before people get defensive in the comments lol. Everyone’s wired differently. But for me personally, I’m an extremely secure person in relationships and I genuinely love the idea of our women being liberated instead of shamed for being sexual beings. As society we’ve kinda been made to believe that is more okay for a man to have multiple partners and not for a woman. I wanna change that, which is why I love the idea that my girlfriend has the freedom to fuck whoever she wants, whenever she wants. Plus I get the hottest sex of my life with my partner through this, so it’s a win win.

A lot of people outside the lifestyle think it means the relationship is broken, but honestly from what I’ve seen, insecure couples usually can’t handle this dynamic at all. The couples who truly enjoy it, communicate a lot and have a lot of trust already.

Also, there are a lot of nuances to hotwifing as well. Some guys like to participate, some guys like to watch, some just wanna hear about it later after the fact. Happy to answer more for those who are curious or are dipping their toes in this lifestyle

Also, just to clarify I’m not hunting for a “bull” here. I don’t like that term and that’s not how we practice our kink. She chooses whoever she wants, I don’t get involved. We both prefer it that way

So boys, if you wanna try this lifestyle, definitely think about it. It’ll revolutionise your life.

Women, if you’re into this then please talk to your partners about it, it can lead to something very sexy. Let the matriarchy begin!

I can do a part two describing our first hotwife story. Let me know in the comments

(29M&28F)