Looking for BDSM furniture that doubles as regular bedroom furniture — any recommendations? (DACH region preferred)
My wife and I (M31) are moving into a new apartment and want to incorporate some BDSM furniture into our bedroom — think bed frames, benches, a St. Andrew’s cross, a swing, etc. — but we’d love pieces that don’t immediately scream what they’re for. Basically: functional for our lifestyle, but aesthetically inconspicuous to guests or family.
We’re looking for recommendations on:
• Furniture styles or specific pieces that serve the purpose but look like regular, high-quality bedroom furniture at first glance
• Shops or manufacturers based in the DACH region (Austria, Germany, Switzerland) — or reputable online stores that ship here
• DIY resources if there are good builds that can be disguised as normal furniture
Any inspiration, brands, or community wisdom is appreciated. If this isn’t the right sub for this, please point me in the right direction!
Thanks in advance!